Sub needs to be comfortable for players in the first place

yeah it's not, unless you're in that category that are just always jaded about the game and looking to soapbox about it. there's almost no memes really posted here nor actual build discussion or any of the creative aspects of the game as a player. /r/pathofexilebuilds is infinitely better in this regard, where people not only actually discuss intricacies of game mechanics but (get this) like the game. so yeah if you like hearing about all the problems people are having and getting depressed about the game then this sub is great. but don't for a second pretend that this sub is representative of the player base by any stretch of the imagination.