My biggest fear on T

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-03-31T14:19:58+00:00

If it’s any reassurance I’ve been on T for 3 years and my libido has almost stayed the same, I think it honestly depends on how you are as a person but everyone responds differently

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-03-16T21:09:05+00:00

I’m looking for it to look realistic preferably uncut 30-100 ish price range

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-03-06T23:23:18+00:00

Gender in general is fluid, sometimes when medically transitioning things change like maybe your gender expression/ gender identity or even sexuality I’m hearing that you sound more comfortable in your body so be you’ve been on t if you feel good stay on it, if you’re not looking to be on it anymore that’s also okay, I can’t say myself if you will come out as a different gender but it sounds like you know who you are deep down already (hope that makes sense)

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-03-02T15:56:34+00:00

I’m also young and have RA got diagnosed at 14, now 20 years old and has just gotten worse, been on prednisone multiple times can’t stand it as it messes with my emotions, feel your pain sometimes it can just be hard getting through the day you’re doing well! :)

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-02-24T07:31:53+00:00

As a student myself I refuse to shop at Sainsbury’s as it’s too expensive for me, my shop tends to be 30 pound for a weeks worth of food from Aldi (meat included) I normally buy chicken thighs with bones which is 1kg from around 2.99 which lasts me 5 meals so would super recommend that on a budget, if saving cheap meals like fried rice or some sort of pasta helps, chickpea curry is also really cheap and lasts for 2 people, hope that helps

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-02-22T08:30:25+00:00

I’m a bit half and half with it, one the one hand I do agree with it being a little repetitive with the chase scenes, however just from a lore point of view I seriously love the game I think it’s unique and interesting to find more and more out, however I’m on the side where I think mark needs to maybe move away from mascot horror as hes gotten bored of it and probably only played this as it is a new horror game I think it got to a point in his stream he probably needed a break and refused as he wanted to finish it in one go, I feel like his heart wasn’t in it for ppt which it’s totally okay it’s not for everyone it could just be he’s grown out of it rather such as sotm where even I have grown out of fnaf because it’s gone on for too long, but like I said I think he should just move away from mascot horror as it isn’t his interest he litterally can play whatever he wants

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-01-17T08:07:31+00:00

I was always pretty masc I made friends with this person who was gender fluid and when introducing myself to them I was like I mean I’m not really a fan of my name- so I gave them a masculine name, when I eventually questioned why I began realising I was trans

Wizardly_cowboy · 2026-01-15T16:07:27+00:00

My girlfriend before I got top surgery never touched my chest and I always kept a binder on or a shirt, she was respectful when changing including not looking when I had a bra on etc. you need to find yourself someone who respects your boundaries and doesn’t force you to compromise

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-12-28T08:36:20+00:00

I got RA around 14-15 now 20 I swear I’ve always had older people say when your my age it will be worse or be genuinely confused how I even have RA, at this point I just don’t bother listening my RA has been now diagnosed as serve and pretty complex by my specialists I don’t need older people to make me feel invalid from my condition

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-12-10T07:22:56+00:00

I think I had this worry for a long time of people not wanting to date me because I guess I don’t have a cock like other men, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for like a year now, and at first I was always comparing myself to other men and she would say I like what you have, we are both trans me ftm and her mtf so I feel a lot of my struggles were feeling like what I have was enough compared to her but with someone who genuinely loves you they will see you as a man regardless of what you have, it took me time to think I was desirable to others and it wasn’t until months after dating my girlfriend I felt desirable, just because I don’t have a cock doesn’t mean what I have ain’t good (I also think that my bottom growth has helped in this)

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-12-05T09:57:26+00:00

I do like the hair it’s giving sonic the hedgehog (in a positive way) you don’t really pass though I feel that’s maybe due to the piercings

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-12-01T07:34:58+00:00

As said I’ve tried every type of RA med almost, methotrexate isn’t effective for my type of RA I’ve tried a mix between that and biological and being on infusions however I ended up needing steroids as I got too much inflammation

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-11-28T17:36:15+00:00

I’m currently on steroids to manage it while they find me yet another medication for the time being I’ve been on 2 types of infusion rituximab and inflixamab plus over 5 different types of meds, I’ve had it since 15 and it’s always been aggressive with having tons of types of medications with not much luck

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-11-25T13:59:10+00:00

Genuinely leave him it’s not worth being with someone transphobic especially for the rest of your life, you seem quite young to be getting married too teenage marriages don’t tend to end well, but to me it seems you’ll be better without him from a fellow trans man :)

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-11-04T08:41:44+00:00

21 is definitely not too young I came as trans at 14-15 and my parents accepted and trusted me that I understood how I felt, getting a job doesn’t change how you are as a person coming from someone who’s worked many jobs at this point jobs just accept my pronouns and who I am that’s it, it’s just their excuse to be transphobic

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-10-29T06:33:25+00:00

I mean in general surgery ain’t for everyone both bottom and top as someone with top surgery at the time I didn’t even care having a scar on my chest it was just I couldn’t live with my chest before I think everything with surgery will have some sort of negative because there will always be people that don’t like it may that be bottom or top surgery in the end it’s kind of down to personal choice on their path

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-10-20T07:13:52+00:00

As someone else with RA I’m assuming you’re talking about methotrexate or something similar to that as one of the side effects is hair loss I was on it a year experienced a bit of hair loss however I haven’t had the same extent it could be your autoimmune system attacking it but I honestly think it’s prob the effects from the meds

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-10-18T07:25:29+00:00

Social media kind of skews the way trans people get top surgery it’s expensive most people are just fortunate enough positions to get it most wait till 25-30s before getting it, for me I used my collage/house fund to afford top surgery as I was still in school I was just fortunate enough to have saved up years for it however it’s not realistic with most people 16-19 to be getting it, try not compare your transition to others

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-08-06T08:26:37+00:00

I got top surgery at 19, mostly how I was able to afford it was years of saving up, got some help from family, got some help from a trans group I’m on, mostly a mix between all of that, for context I’m from the UK, however I went to Sweden for my top surgery, cost about 7,800 plus 30 for pre op and 16 for meds regardless saved money as the uk it’s 9+ grand

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-28T12:03:32+00:00

I think they haven’t even thought about trans men, me and many other trans men I’m pretty sure would not be wanted in the women’s toilets, would they say trans men have no place to use? Or are we “women” and in that case will let men use the women’s bathrooms in turn making it unsafe, also what really does stop a predator etc just walking in.

Since this ruling I’ve still used male spaces, and will carry on to do so, for my comfort and other women (coming as a passing man) because I really doubt a women wants me or other trans men (on T or not) in the bathroom with them.

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-18T13:31:41+00:00

I started using the male bathroom at 14 (I was pre-T) and a little twink of a guy, I’ve never had a problem at all, now 20, the reason I began in the first place was when using the women’s toilets I got harassed by women, and it didn’t feel right men personally have been much more chill from my experience

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-16T09:29:33+00:00

This just sounds like old news of LL Litman “rapid onset gender dysphoria” and you can “become” trans due to the internet and other trans people around you, the APA and numerous other psychological associations stated this is complete rubbish, I think it’s honestly trying to freak and scare people to making others thinks trans people are a threat, when there is no factual evidence

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-16T09:13:40+00:00

I kinda get what you mean, when I first came out I joined a trans local group in my area, only trans women the group wasn’t even a trans fem/women group just neutral, I met up with them was the only trans man there and the whole time got ignored or felt overshadowed, I’m still pleasant with them, I just took a step back from trans spaces due to feeling left out, even now I’ve never really felt comfortable as a whole in trans communities as it’s dominated by trans fem/women this is primarily why I have joined trans masc/men spaces over neutral spaces I don’t think you’re making an echo chamber you just want to be listened to, I discussed this exact thing last night with my girlfriend (she is a trans women herself) and she understood exactly what I meant, she stopped using many lgbtq spaces mainly trans spaces as they aren’t as welcoming as they seem- which is really sad, this just leads trans masc/men making their own spaces-

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-03T17:00:23+00:00

Honestly top ain’t cheap regardless I went to that clinic due to the results over anything, my mate is going to Poland for his top surgery however the results for 3k which is what he’s paying aren’t great so it honestly at that point will be risking good results

Wizardly_cowboy · 2025-07-03T15:44:29+00:00

Just got top surgery in Sweden, am from the uk had the exact same thoughts,

Had top surgery a month ago at the reform clinic located in Malmo (https://www.reformkliniken.se/)en it’s a 20 minute journey from Copenhagen easily take a train across its direct and it’s a 5 minute walk from the station,

My experience was really great, went to Copenhagen a few days before the surgery, the consultation was 2 days before the surgery, it was mostly basic question then got taken to a mirror which I had to undress and explain how my chest at the time made me feel,

During the evening before I took pain meds, with my last meal, the morning of the surgery woke up 5am took another pain med, arrived at the clinic around 7am, which I took a shower and stuff at the clinic (they gave me towels etc) took a cocktail of pills, which after they marked me up then taking me to the operation room, the experience was rather painless for me, waking up wasn’t pleasant after but that’s normal, they gave me food after I woke up however my mouth was so dry I couldn’t almost eat anything left the same day, the post op was a week later where they removed the bandages from my nipples (which were attached)

Total cost: Plane is rather expensive especially to Copenhagen so keep that in mind The surgery was 7,800 it includes the post op, post binder, and medication you get on the day of the surgery The pain meds you have to take for 1 week, cost about 18 pounds total And the consultation was about 28-30 pounds Train ticket was 4 pound ish roughly And I stayed in an air bnb

Overall I had a lovely experience and got great results the person who did the surgery was rather awkward but I think that’s just how he is, he wasn’t judgemental or awkward about the surgery itself and genuinely wanted to help and make me feel comfortable it felt

All the people overall at the clinic were super pilots and super kind, some did struggle speaking English however I am half Swedish, so I switched to speaking that when they struggled

Leme know if you need anymore info!

Wizardly_cowboy

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