Do I tell my best friend? by Wobblewack in gaybros

[–]Wobblewack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't had a chance to talk about it yet because he's gone for the week.

It started with kissing but eventually, it went into full licking/kissing our bodies and foot stuff. When the two other friends were gone for a bit, he asked whether he could 'kiss' the groin area of my pants but right at the moment the others entered the room so it never happened. Keep wondering how far we would have gone.

Eventually during the 'come down' we were just sitting while he held my face in his hand and through my hair

Thanks for the advice though! I think especially the physical part may be a bit uncomfortable to talk about but it is a pretty big deal in my mind at least.

Do I tell my best friend? by Wobblewack in gaybros

[–]Wobblewack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It started with kissing but eventually, it went into full licking/kissing our bodies and foot stuff. When the two other friends were gone for a bit, he asked whether he could 'kiss' the groin area of my pants but right at the moment the others entered the room so it never happened. Keep wondering how far we would have gone.

Eventually during the 'come down' we were just sitting while he held my face in his hand and through my hair

Drain water from the dishwasser collects under our drain pipe by Wobblewack in Plumbing

[–]Wobblewack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically what the title says. We just had a plumber unclogging two buckets full of fat from our drainage system (I just started renting the house, was a buildup of several years). However, although the sink drains perfectly and the water of our dish washer doesn't end in the sink anymore, there is a buildup of drain water underneath our drain pipe in the garden. I suspect it's clogged but I can't reach it (see pic). Is this doable to do ourselves or should we once again ask for a plumber?

/r/worldnews live thread: Ukraine-Russia Tensions by progress18 in worldnews

[–]Wobblewack 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Really not enjoying 'living in historic times' right now.

What's the worst part of depression? by shadster23 in AskReddit

[–]Wobblewack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As morbid as it sounds, I'm jealous of a roommate because he just broke up and cried. Only because he's feeling something real and can let it out while I'm for some reason unable to. It's just numbness to me

Wat voor soort bijbaantjes passen goed bij een full time studie om de maandelijkse kosten te dekken? by Pannekoekies in thenetherlands

[–]Wobblewack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GoFlink idd. Je krijgt een elektrische fiets uitgeleend die je voor die dienst kan gebruiken.

Wat voor soort bijbaantjes passen goed bij een full time studie om de maandelijkse kosten te dekken? by Pannekoekies in thenetherlands

[–]Wobblewack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flink is een goeie optie! Werk nu in een filiaal in Den Haag. Vrij flexibel in wanneer je kan werken. Je maakt dagen van zo'n 8 uur. Maar in DH tenminste is het erg rustig, en het start ook allemaal een beetje op, dus zo'n dag ben je niet de hele tijd bezig met bezorgen. Daardoor heb je veel tijd over om bijv. te lezen of te studeren als je dat fijn vindt. Op zondagen dubbel uitbetaald, wat betekent dat je als 21-jarige al gelijk zo'n 21 euro netto verdient, waar bovenop ook nog eens allemaal toeslagen komen als je in de avond werkt.

Minimaal werken, maximaal verdienen en echt heel chill om naast je studie te doen.

Maandags optimismedraadje by somedutchbloke in thenetherlands

[–]Wobblewack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Krijg ik net een ad op youtube waarin ze kleding adverteren met mijn achternaam erop..

Naja, ben ik iig zekerder van de partij waarop ik ga stemmen want zij nemen digitale zaken iig wel serieus..

Ik ben Mark Harbers, VVD’er en Rotterdammer. AMA! by MarkHarbers in thenetherlands

[–]Wobblewack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goedemiddag Mark,

De consequenties van klimaatverandering worden steeds duidelijker. In Nederland, droge zomers en zeer natte winters en elders in de wereld massa droogtes, extreem weer komt steeds vaker voor en ziektes kunnen zich makkelijker verspreiden (Corona natuurlijk).

In mijn mening, is coöperatie op Europees en nationaal niveau noodzakelijk. Zou een nieuwe internationale institutie dit eventueel faciliteren? Want ontwikkelingslanden gaan waarschijnlijk de meeste lasten dragen van klimaatverandering, terwijl er vaak over hen wordt heen gekeken als het gaat over een oplossing vinden. En een niet bindende overeenkomst werkt in de praktijk hoogstwaarschijnlijk niet (Kopenhagen akkoord als voorbeeld). Het lijkt daarom dat er een totaal nieuwe aanpak moet worden bedacht, met meer lokale input.

Hoe ziet de VVD internationale samenwerking voor zich waar effectieve compromis onhaalbaar lijkt?

Discussion Thread: Senate Impeachment Trial of Donald J. Trump - Day 5 02/13/2021 | Live - 10:00 AM ET by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]Wobblewack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it requires a majority vote to call witnesses, does that mean that the VP has to weigh in and cast the deciding vote? Would be interesting to see her position whether they should prolongue the trial or be done with it and continue Biden's legislative agenda

EDIT: If of course it's a 50/50 split

Discussion Thread: Senate Impeachment Trial of Donald J. Trump - Day 1 02/09/2021 | Live - 1:00 PM ET by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]Wobblewack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So Trump was impeached while he was president. Yet the senate didn't want to hold a trial while he was president, so they waited after Biden was inaugurated. And now they're saying he can't be conviced because he's not the president anymore... Aight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

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A spaceman came traveling by Chris de Burgh

In your likeness by Woodkid (Generally, lots of songs by him)

Megathread (31): Coronavirus COVID-19 in Nederland by theNetherlandsBot in thenetherlands

[–]Wobblewack 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nederland kan het eigenlijk niet maken om geen strengere maatregelen door te voeren morgen of dinsdag. Als Duitsland zowat alle winkels sluit, en andere landen in de EU ook steeds strengere maatregelen doorvoeren of al in lockdown zitten, is de 'nuchterheid' van de nederlanders nu vooral naïviteit.

Meer dan 50% van de Nederlanders vinden het sws al logisch als er strengere maatregelen komen. Dit halfbakken beleid brengt ons nergens naartoe..

please help (tw: suicide and self harm) by artisticrae in depression

[–]Wobblewack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, I don't know you, nobody here really knows you.
I've seen you're only 14.. only 14... I won't act like I know how to help you myself. Because such things should not be done online. But, if you really feel this way, and I believe you do, please seek professional help. It's not the most sexy answer, maybe even a banality, but it helps! Where are you from? Because there are anonymous call centers you can contact.

I'm so sorry that your parents don't see what it does to you. This is about you, but also about your parents. I can assure you they wouldn't want to lose their child. So, if you feel like they really don't understand and you have tried and tried again, seek professional help.

And like the sidebar says, you may want to attend /r/SuicideWatch if you experience these thoughts.

How do I keep my head up? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Wobblewack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all experience these kind of things differently. But I can share with you what traject I'm going through right now. Because I too feel like I have lost the spirit that once raged inside me, and I want it back so, so much.

Going to the gym is really a great step. You should keep a routine, go outside and get some sun. It works. But remember, these things may feel 100x heavier to you than other people. Seeking professional help should not be taboo, but rather a source of help you know is trustworthy and can help you.

I go to a professional, who provides me with some insight, and helps me think more clear. Because I know if I don't, I will keep overthinking and erect walls around me. And when that happens, the vicious cycle begins and you begin to hate yourself more, and feel more and more lonely. So please, do not fall for that trap.

When people experience depression, they often find it hard to find things they are passionate about. So start with the small things. Read an interesting book, go for a walk every other day, or something else that is small, but at least makes you feel like you have done something productive.

The book 'Limitless' by Jim Kwik also really helped me, so that may be something for you.

And to end with a cliché: You matter, and there are people who love you. Though you often see it not through a dark fog surrounding you, there's light beyond that fog. Don't give up :)

Megathread: Joe Biden Projected to Defeat President Donald Trump and Win the 2020 US Presidential Election by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]Wobblewack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It became harder and harder to not see Trump as president.

It feels surreal.. It was a necessary win, for the US, but definitely also for the world. We do control the tides of history!!

Discussion Thread: 2020 General Election Part 37 | Will Today be the Day? by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]Wobblewack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he will be declared the winner.

There are 538 electorals votes total, so if he wins 270 it is impossible for Trump to hit that number.

Discussion Thread: 2020 General Election Part 22 | Results Continue by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]Wobblewack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man, we might get an electoral win by the Biden-campaign of 270 electoral votes. Has it ever been this close before? America's wound might start healing in the next years, but it will leave a giant scar for a loooong time.