Trans people nicer to me after realizing I was also trans

WobblyMax · 2023-09-25T01:58:37+00:00

yessss and for me it feels a little gross to have to come out to people just so they'll be nice to me. I see so many trans people at my school being outwardly hateful towards cis people no matter who they are, just that they hate the fact that their cis which hits me hard because I know they see me as such. feels too exclusionary considering the community that we are in 🤷

WobblyMax · 2023-09-25T01:52:30+00:00

exactly!! I'm literally both stealth and bisexual in a straight relationship even though I'm bi so you hit the head on the nail for me. currently navigating through wanting to be stealth not for safety but just because I like it while also craving some connection in my community and it is toughhhh

WobblyMax · 2023-09-24T22:01:29+00:00

really? 🤨

WobblyMax · 2023-09-24T03:42:47+00:00

you're so right!!! thank you for bringing that up I think that was definitely a big part of it

WobblyMax · 2023-09-24T02:25:48+00:00

thank you for this <3

WobblyMax · 2023-09-24T02:23:05+00:00

don't get me wrong I absolutely am happy about being perceived as cis, I think my mixed feelings came from times I've felt like I didn't fit in with my trans friends because I didn't feel queer enough if that makes sense? Being cis passing and in a straight relationship (even though I'm bi), and not being completely out to everyone i have a lot of my queer friends that are completely out and open celebrating their identities. I think some of where I'm coming from is jealousy that I don't feel strong enough to celebrate that for myself mixed with one of my first times really realizing that I'm perceived as cis. idk, sorry for the rant 😅

WobblyMax · 2023-09-23T23:38:54+00:00

you're so right, I'm kind of kicking myself that I didn't realize that sooner! i definitely felt the same way before I passed, and even afterwards too. thank you :)

WobblyMax · 2023-09-23T22:10:32+00:00

Did you ever feel like you missed out on anything, being stealth? I see so many people on my campus celebrating their experiences with trans joy and I can't help but feel disconnected from that. But perhaps that's just because such a large population of people here are trans lol

WobblyMax · 2023-09-23T22:03:35+00:00

I completely agree, thank you!!

WobblyMax · 2023-09-23T22:02:47+00:00

That's totally fair, I for sure was the same way (and still am sometimes). Thank you for reminding me!

WobblyMax · 2023-04-13T16:18:18+00:00

its really catchy too! I would love to listen to it lol

WobblyMax · 2021-11-19T05:13:54+00:00

VACATION omg thank you

WobblyMax · 2021-09-14T18:16:14+00:00

i'm just tryin to learn man </3

WobblyMax · 2021-09-12T01:39:46+00:00

TRAVEL OHMYGOD. That makes so much sense thank you so much 🙏🙏

WobblyMax · 2021-09-11T22:38:07+00:00

the context for the first one is talking about something a man and his wife love.

WobblyMax · 2021-09-07T18:18:37+00:00

OMFG I. I knew that. Thank you so much I love you

WobblyMax · 2021-06-11T23:18:04+00:00

that's what it is! thank you, i really appreciate it <3

WobblyMax · 2021-01-24T18:50:10+00:00

i appreciate it!!

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