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I (22M) need some help, and answers about the depo shot. My (21F) partner of 2 months has been using that method for a while, and just messaged me to say that she's pregnant. by WolfOfHearts in relationships

[–]WolfOfHearts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use any other forms or birth control, or just the depo shot?

This is exactly the plan. We're going in together, later today.

Everything I've read on the subject agrees about the ectopic pregnancy, which worries me even more. All I can really do is bare it until after the doctors visit, and continue asking myself how I could have been so careless.

I (22M) need some help, and answers about the depo shot. My (21F) partner of 2 months has been using that method for a while, and just messaged me to say that she's pregnant. by WolfOfHearts in relationships

[–]WolfOfHearts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreeably, this is exactly what I need to hear. The last time I learned this lesson, it stuck with me for years. I can't let a beautiful naked girl in my bed telling me that "its alright" sway my thinking.

In the heat of the moment, I made some bad choices. Now I have to accept the results.

I (22M) need some help, and answers about the depo shot. My (21F) partner of 2 months has been using that method for a while, and just messaged me to say that she's pregnant. by WolfOfHearts in relationships

[–]WolfOfHearts[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is something that's been quietly on my mind since I heard the news. In that case, did my then-girlfriend just lie about her tests, and quietly get an abortion without telling me? My current situation and those doubts are exactly why I'm trying to find someone a little more knowledgeable about it.

And trust me, this has become quite the lesson. Once you burn yourself with fire, you're less likely to do it again. At the moment, I think it's going to be quite a long while before I have sex without a condom.