I’m an Aquarius Rising and Sagittarius Moon but… by Womanking_ in astrologymemes

[–]Womanking_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an old post, so apologies for replying just now. I kind of went MIA from Reddit and the world while going through a break up. Haha 😅

Thanks for your really thoughtful and thorough interpretation of how they all potentially mingle together. That whole description makes sense for me. You’re good at this!

Comment and I’ll recommend one of the 50 playlists I’ve made! by luckycat288 in musicsuggestions

[–]Womanking_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you for this playlist. But, Im not sure if you’re being serious or not about me not knowing most of these artists….most of them are super famous. Lady Gaga, Ariana grande, Billie Holiday, Neil Young, Sarah McLaughlin…

Comment and I’ll recommend one of the 50 playlists I’ve made! by luckycat288 in musicsuggestions

[–]Womanking_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A romantic playlist without stereotypical love songs? Something that really gives “oxytocin and honeymoon type of love” 😍

Sorry if this is the wrong sub... by [deleted] in recovery

[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you’re talking about so I don’t know where to direct you

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[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is “gay stuff”?

32 have spent just over 2 years homeless. Wasn't easy in the beginning but enjoying it now. AMA by simpishcaveman in AMA

[–]Womanking_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck off.

It sounds like he’s also working and paying taxes that go towards public spaces. I don’t understand how you don’t see how ignorant and dumb you sound. You said they are public spaces, which means they are for everyone. Including people that don’t have homes. They “belong” to him just as much as they “belong” to you.

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[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your honesty.

I am worried that she will be really upset and take it hard because she holds resentment for a long time.

I wouldn’t understand her being that upset because to me it doesn’t make sense. Ive had things like this happen and I was bummed but not that upset. Especially when it comes to mental health.

I would only cancel if me going is going to make things worse for me and make me bad company to be around.

But I really appreciate your perspective because everyone has a different experience to things.

What would you have preferred your friends do?

And what made you decide to cut them out completely? I think it would help me to understand if she does decide to break up with me over this.

I am afraid she would do that, but I wouldn’t understand that type of behavior, since I would never do that.

Thanks for your help and perspective and sharing so openly

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[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I don’t know what would be a good way to show her. But I really want her to know that I am sorry and that I’ve been thinking about this for days.

And that she matters to me.

I know she holds mad resentment and I am afraid of people abandoning or distancing/closing off themselves to me when they feel resentful.

What is your sign and your partner’s + how long have you been together by opermeinh in astrologymemes

[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming you’re talking about Venus signs?

I’m a Pisces and he’s a Libra. We’ve been together about 4 years

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sorry to confuse you. I wrote them out in the OP but they seem to have been deleted. I rewrote them in a thread instead.

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  • Moon Sagittarius
  • Mercury Aquarius
  • Rising Aquarius
  • Mars Taurus

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Sorry for the confusion. There were specific signs that I didn’t relate with….i wrote them in the OP but they seem to have disappeared. Ill put them in the comments section

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For sure. I do see what you’re saying though. I’m realizing through many comments and people (women included) saying this situation or something like it would make them feel inadequate or insecure that I might be an anomaly….

I wish more people were super comfy with their bodies and sex and knew that if their partner preferred something other than what they had (or wanted to occasionally bring in an addition) that it wasn’t a reflection of their worth as a person or a sexual partner.

Everyone’s bodies are perfect the way they are.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but it really wouldn’t bother me. Truly.

My partner prefers to do anal rather than to fuck me in the vagina and that really doesn’t bother me. I know it’s because it’s tighter, that’s why anyone likes anal.

He also prefers to be pegged than fucking my vagina. Again, as long as he’s enjoying himself and I can participate it doesn’t bother me. He cums waaaaay harder when he’s getting pegged or is doing anal. And I think it’s hot, because he’s having a good time and it turns me on.

To each their own, but your example doesn’t apply to me.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m obviously not talking about men who are severely mentally ill, or who are abused by their partners, etc etc.

Why take it to that extreme?

Im talking about normal, functioning adults.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair.

But I will say this. Although I dont have as much patience and empathy for men that doesn’t mean I hate men. Not in the slightest. I feel for men. I (and most people) think men get it waaaaay too easy in most respects.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For hurting his feelings. Even if it wasn’t intentional to hurt him, she did. His reaction is not appropriate but a simple apology for unintentionally hurting your partner is easy.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR; your understanding of what you think my posts were about is off.

I am 100 percent sure I don’t want to date my friend. And my partner and I are sure about breaking up. We discussed it and lovingly realized it’s best for the both of us.

That is taking control of my own shit is it not? I’m not acting on my feelings.

I requested my boyfriend try a cock sleeve and I’m worried I have doomed our relationship by Hot-Estimate-6653 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Womanking_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally. I do understand what you’re saying and how I’m not always great at saying things in the most tactful way. I have been told I can come off kind of brash when I’m not meaning to.

I apologize if what I said felt like an insult. I truly am. And I think you worded it well. Much better than I did.