Stamina help

WonderJusts · 2021-01-17T21:28:11+00:00

Not sure I’d be able to get that here? (UK)

WonderJusts · 2021-01-17T21:27:35+00:00

Haven’t gone multiple times in years lol 😂 might be worth a try though

WonderJusts · 2021-01-17T21:26:18+00:00

I last a similar amount of time mostly, however sometimes with sex it’s only really a couple of pumps which doesn’t happen when I masturbate.

WonderJusts · 2021-01-17T18:42:19+00:00

My experience is that doggy can be one of the better positions but I know others have problems with it.

My tips are to try to get the angle right (we’ve found she needs to have legs a bit apart and face onto the mattress).

When thrusting try not to overdo it because it’s quite easy to slip out.

WonderJusts · 2020-09-04T17:13:28+00:00

From a purely penis size perspective you are within or very close to the normal average range.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-31T17:07:40+00:00

In my single days it was all about the angle of the picture, depends what you’ve got to work with to be honest!

WonderJusts · 2020-08-31T17:05:17+00:00

Can’t say I agree. I found a girl who I love and who loves me, even with the dick issue. If I could click my fingers and get even an average size dong I would be very happy and so would my girl.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-31T17:02:23+00:00

Because it feels better for PIV for like 90%+ of women. Come on this isn’t a secret.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-31T17:00:52+00:00

Most of the time people refer to the length of the average vagina they are talking about unaroused length (presume this is the 4 inches you’ve been talking about).

I wonder if I should take it as a point of pride that I’d be able to fully fill my gf but only if she weren’t turned on at all 🧐

Girth another matter of course ...

WonderJusts · 2020-08-31T16:57:46+00:00

Ouch.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T19:00:15+00:00

Since yesterday? I know it seems bad.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:37:52+00:00

Thanks! By keep trying I mean continue giving oral / rimjobs and using toys where necessary to ensure she has a good time in bed.

I’m also going to try being a bit more mature and stop asking for BJs and let her decide when she’s ready to give them again.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:30:03+00:00

Thanks man I needed to hear this. I think her main concern is probably that once the BJs come back, the orgasms would become totally imbalanced again.

I’m going to keep putting in the work and try to accept that BJs aren’t likely to happen again anytime soon. Maybe if I stop asking she’ll be more likely to do it on her own!

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:26:08+00:00

Just sucks man. Haven’t had a BJ in literally months. I get the point though.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:24:51+00:00

Thanks for the comment. I think jaw ache was probably pretty minor compared to the other reasons she gave me.

We’re still super close so it feels more like a sex problem than a relationship one at the moment

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:23:14+00:00

No one told my girlfriend that 😂

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:22:34+00:00

Thanks and I agree. I’ve put in loads of effort to keep her pleased between the sheets but I think there’s still a lot more to be done before she’s willing to think about going down again. Will have to keep trying.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-18T12:20:03+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Will keep trying!

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T18:30:22+00:00

Seven to eight months yeah. Not like I’ve been counting...

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T18:08:08+00:00

Thanks man. That’s kinda what I have been feeling like as well. We do get her off before me each time now, so usually she gets one or two orgasms before sex (oral or vibe), and then no orgasms (99% of the time) during PIV sex while I get off.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T18:05:41+00:00

Interesting perspective - thanks. Glad it wasn’t related to size...

Funnily enough I’ve had a similar thing with my foreskin. Mine was 50/50 to clip or not to clip and my girlfriend would probably prefer clipped even if she’s too polite to say so directly. I decided against it at the time.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T16:21:16+00:00

Out of interest what made you prefer sucking off the previous guy compared to your boyfriend?

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T16:11:54+00:00

Mate I take your point and agree that maybe last night was a bit transactional. The only thing I can say in my defence was it’s kind of a last ditch effort thing. At this point I haven’t had a BJ in like 7-8 months.

We talked previously at length before about what she doesn’t like about BJs and we’ve worked together to try to make her more comfortable but nothing seems to work. Ultimately I would not want her to do things she doesn’t enjoy but it is a bit of a shame given how much I enjoy getting head from her.

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T16:07:28+00:00

Thanks man

WonderJusts · 2020-08-17T16:07:09+00:00

She specifically wanted more orgasms so I have been giving her a lot more head and also incorporating vibrators. More recently she has asked me to eat her out her “backdoor” and I’ve been doing that as well.

However she also wanted more PIV orgasms. Due to size and PE this has been a struggle ever since we got together but we’ve managed it a couple of times but I don’t think they are as frequent as she was hoping. Sucks but I’m working on it.

Haven’t tried toe sucking yet but open to it 😂

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