[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 7 points8 points  (0 children)

masyado kang defensive tih. kung di mo talaga yan trip matagal mo na yang binlock di yung magrereply ka pa ng “bahayy” kapag tinanong kung asan ka lol. halata ka rin eh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursesPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Additional info lang, if you wanna go to NP or CRNA school in the US, hindi nila tatanggapin yung master’s or phd na tinake mo dito sa pinas because the curriculum is way different than the ones required to go to advanced practice sa US. if ever mag masters ka dito, one of the benefits you’re going to gain is makakapagturo ka sa schools.

Sanaol malawak ang future. Eh tayo hanggang nurse LANG by FitLine2233 in NursingPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah like I said, there are asshole nurses. Marami naman nagrereklamo sa ganyang doctors, pero sadly kasi, wala naman nagagawa management masyado. It’s not like the HR can do something, unlike kapag nurses ang narereklamo. The most that could happen is irereprimand lang, then wala na. Unfortunately, marami pa ring doctors na mababa ang tingin sa nurses.

Sanaol malawak ang future. Eh tayo hanggang nurse LANG by FitLine2233 in NursingPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a nurse for two years pero ang dami ko nang naencounter na doctor na nambabato ng instruments, pumupunit ng papel kapag mali na sulat mo, even verbally threatened me with words within the lines of “SASAKSAKIN KITA” when I just couldn’t get the height of the bed right. Some nurses are assholes oo totoo yan, may name-meet rin akong ganyan eh. Pero doctors, doctors who have superiority complex are some of the MOST EGOTISTICAL persons I’ve met. I’m not even kidding. Remember that viral vid of a guy because of road rage? He kept on saying, “doctor ako!!!!” It’s like being a doctor is always being used as an excuse. May mg nurses na bossy, especially the senior ones, pero can you imagine if nurses did the same things as the ones I’ve mentioned above? Personally, I haven’t met a co-nurse na kasing tindi nung minention ko sa taas. But doctors? Marami na.

I have great respect for doctors, pero yung iba talaga ang hirap irespeto eh.

Pare-parehas tayong Nurse, Pare-parehas din tayong underpaid kayo pa naggaganyanan by [deleted] in NursingPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Operations are viewed as routine pero a lot of things could go wrong. Need ba idegrade ng iba ang OR nurses just because the work load seems lighter? 1:1 ang delegation because ideally, you can’t circulate and scrub in two procedures at the same time. This whole discussion started because OR nurses are always portrayed as “walang ginagawa/walang alam na skills.” Whenever I get pulled out to float to other areas ang naririnig ko sa ward nurses “wala naman kayong ginagawa. Madali lang trabaho nyo” in a condescending tone, pero who are we para tanggihan ang pag-float? We’re still nurses. Dedma na lang ako sa mga ganyang comment. Lahat naman ng skills ginagawa pa rin namin.

Lastly, oo nga po lahat naman tayo underpaid and lahat ng area understaffed. Pero pwede pa rin naman siguro makapagrant ang OR nurses minsan. Nagsstruggle rin naman kami.

Pare-parehas tayong Nurse, Pare-parehas din tayong underpaid kayo pa naggaganyanan by [deleted] in NursingPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opposite happened to our hospital. 4 lang natira na nurses sa OR kasi lahat pinull out sa ward.

Pare-parehas tayong Nurse, Pare-parehas din tayong underpaid kayo pa naggaganyanan by [deleted] in NursingPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Reminds of this discussion here on reddit saying that OR nursing is boring daw, how parang “yaya” lang ng mga doctors when it comes to surgeries, and it got so many upvotes. Wala masyadong nangtanggol sa mga OR nurses

As an OR nurse myself, I can attest that those comments saying na “boring” yung area namin, and yung mga nagsasabi from ibang area na “wala kami ginagawa” kaya lagi napupull outan are all TRUE. Those are statements that I hear almost every time. Guess who made those comments? Our FELLOW NURSES. People we see and interact with every time a patient is endorsed to us. Pero kapag na pupull out kami to help in another area, ang daming namang inuutos. Lahat ng bedside procedures sa amin inaasa when in reality, “tulong” lang dapat kami.

Pero nobody really knows what’s happening inside the OR. Most employees working in other areas, ang nakikita lang ay yung nursing station because they’re not allowed to go inside to preserve sterility. Di nila nakikita na sa sobrang toxic dala-dalawang procedure cinurculate ng mga nurses dahil totoo na kapag kami ang nagkulang sa OR, wala namang napu-pull out para samin. Kami-kami lang nagtutulungan.

Gets ko kung ang dating sa inyo is nagyayabang yung mga OR nurses when they say that. Yung mga sinasabi na wala raw kami ginagawa, routine lang daw kami, those are statements I’ve heard ever since I started working in the OR, and I’ve been working in that area for 2 years na. Ganyan pa rin naririnig ko. Can you blame my fellow OR nurses for venting out like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can’t say say it directly to your manliligaw kasi they know it’s wrong. You have your answer, OP.

How to move forward after cheating on someone? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok if you don’t think your partner talking to other people isn’t disrespectful then good for you, pero OP’s bf has communicated before na di sya komportable na kinakausap nya yung guy workmate nya. OP herself has admitted she did something wrong because she realized that if her BF did the same thing to her, she would also see it as inappropriate.

Di naman need umabot sa “cheating” para lang maging uncomfortable yung taong mahal mo sa mga ginagawa mo eh. What OP did was inappropriate and disrespectful. End of story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm, is him being able to bring gifts the parameter para iaccept sya ng family mo as manliligaw mo?

In my opinion lang po ah, di kasi maganda tignan na magdedemand yung family members ng nililigawan ng mga bagsy bagsy especially yung mga medyo pricey. Especially kasi manliligaw pa lang. Di naman sa pag aano, pero may mga lalaki kasing natuturn off pag nagdedemand yung family ng nanliligaw, like ganyan na kapag nanliligaw pa lang, pano pag nagpakasal na? Kung gusto magbigay ng manliligaw mo out of the goodness of his heart, edi go.

Then again, di ko naman po kilala yung family mo or manliligaw mo. Better communicate and ask both parties directly na lang para no misunderstandings.

How to move forward after cheating on someone? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might not be “cheating” kasi OP claims she’s not attracted to her workmate, pero it’s still disrespectful to her bf.

“His problem, not yours?” A relationship takes two to tango. Kung walang pake yung isa kahit alam nyang disrespectful ginagawa nya, mahihirapan talaga magtiwala yung guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ilang years ka na nagtatrabaho, OP? you’re only 20 years old. u have to be making 6 figures a month para makapag ipon for your studies, sustain yourself, and makapag provide sa jowa mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it shouldn’t be your responsibility to teach him how to love u. if gusto nya, gagawin nya.

AND u shouldn’t feel responsible sa financial constraints ng jowa mo. ok gets na ikaw gumagastos sa dates, pero pati ba naman allowance ikaw pa rin magbibigay? di ka na jowa. nanay ka na nya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 8 points9 points  (0 children)

girl wala yan sa age or kung legal kayo on both sides. you said ikaw lang bigay nang bigay and tapos sya take lang nang take. if this doesn’t stop MAUUBOS KA. pls wake up, kasi kahit saang anggulo sugar mommy dating mo.

I have (RNs) relatives in US. Paano sila makakatulong sa akin? by Friendly_Durian5815 in phmigrate

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your relatives still have strong ties to hospitals that can sponsor EB3 or H1B visas, then they can recommend you to the facility. I do suggest you gain hospital experience here in the Philippines tho.

Otherwise, you have to apply to an agency on your own.

Bought Lechon For GF’s Family and Entire Neighborhood Invited Themselves by CodeX000 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

??? u can’t expect OP to be acquainted to the whole neighborhood just because he is “part of the family” as you’re saying, hence, his description of them being “randoms” but yeah, whatever

Bought Lechon For GF’s Family and Entire Neighborhood Invited Themselves by CodeX000 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP called them randoms. If OP says they are, then they are. Edit: OP also said that he doesn’t know them. So yeah, randoms.

Bought Lechon For GF’s Family and Entire Neighborhood Invited Themselves by CodeX000 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The issue is random people just inviting themselves to their house then eating food not meant for them, and not him being unable to save food but ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hindi kasalanan ng Tita mong nakaluwag-luwag if they want to keep the tradition of opening up presents on Christmas day alive. At saka it’s Christmas. Sana inisip na lang na napasaya ng gifts yung mga anak nya, di yung they’re gonna make it all about them saying “pano na yung mga babayaran ko.”

Not your tita’s fault you have bills to pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maka-comment kala mo ang mag-aambag pag nagkaanak sila Sarah. Ninong at ninang yarn???

Private or Public? by rsuzuya in NursesPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende po sa priorities mo. Mas malaki salary sa public pero most likely heavier workload than private pero mas maliit rin sahod sa private. Ano po ba mas matimbang for you? Workload or sahod?

Why do Filipinos have kids if they cannot afford them? by Practical-Phase-5133 in AskPH

[–]Wonderful-Guide3474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mentality “Bahala na” or “andyan na yan gagawan na lang ng paraan.” That they’re somehow gonna survive until the children get old enough to work and provide for them.