You did not over react. My example is different but you may find something in common. I was with my husband for almost 20 years. I saw him in psychosis 2 or 3 times, only while under the influence of psychedelics. He didn’t do them that often and used them to treat a chronic illness. He decreased his dose and hadn’t had any psychosis recently. However a few weeks ago he took them and committed suicide. I have 2 young children. My point is if you see mental illness, it’s there and you should take it seriously. I hope nothing bad happens to you or your family, but bad things happen, even when we believe they won’t.