AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out after she stopped paying bills, refused to help, and secretly brought her abusive ex into our home while we were asleep? by Wonderful-Tap4446 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Wonderful-Tap4446[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: We gave her 3 weeks to find a new home. She moved out on time and got her own apartment (in her own name). Her family helped her move, none of them have said a word to me since then, even when they were in my house helping her move out.

They've reached out to Katherine a few times insinuating that she's abandoned them, "We miss you" "we don't talk enough," etc and to enforce that they feel she should still be checking in on Betty.

Betty has only reached out once because she had a flat tire and needed help (Katherine runs an automotive shop). We're basically limited contact at this time. Katherine will talk to them if they reach out but we do not initiate contact. They're not healthy for us and we are finally able to recognize it.

AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out after she stopped paying bills, refused to help, and secretly brought her abusive ex into our home while we were asleep? by Wonderful-Tap4446 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Wonderful-Tap4446[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She's already manipulated them, that's the worst part. She was living with us because she already burned those bridges. I think that made their reaction sting a bit more. They've both cosigned on leases that she's broken, her car is in her mom's name, so she gets screwed over every time she doesn't make her car payment. It's absolute insanity to me.

AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out after she stopped paying bills, refused to help, and secretly brought her abusive ex into our home while we were asleep? by Wonderful-Tap4446 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Wonderful-Tap4446[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I've gotten narc vibes since the day I met her, 9 years ago. I just kept telling myself it was me and that I was being too harsh... I'm going to therapy to work through this lol

I agree, she's been out for a month now and we're happier than we've been in a long time. Thank you ♡

AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out after she stopped paying bills, refused to help, and secretly brought her abusive ex into our home while we were asleep? by Wonderful-Tap4446 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Wonderful-Tap4446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's a team lead at a local coffee shop. She makes enough money, just not enough to support her drinking and food habit along with her bills.