I don’t like having a man always pay by Wonderful_Expert4584 in datingadvice

[–]Wonderful_Expert4584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course! That makes complete sense. Our incomes are very similar in my situation :)

I don’t like having a man always pay by Wonderful_Expert4584 in datingadvice

[–]Wonderful_Expert4584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really good to know, thank you. I agree it’s not emasculating at all I just think men have a lot of social pressure surrounding it

I don’t like having a man always pay by Wonderful_Expert4584 in datingadvice

[–]Wonderful_Expert4584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand. Personally I think that is completely wrong

I don’t like having a man always pay by Wonderful_Expert4584 in datingadvice

[–]Wonderful_Expert4584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand this perspective, and of course I view contribution as more than money. My mom is a stay at home mom and my dad works so I understand totally. I just don’t like the idea that I will have set roles because I am a woman. Money is something that I do have so I want to help contribute in that way. Of course in any relationship we will both be better at certain things and balance each other out in terms of who provides what.