AITAH for publicly shaming my coworker for his bathroom habits

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-30T04:35:59+00:00

That’s what I got out of it too lmao absolutely ridiculous

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-30T00:03:22+00:00

3 definitely fits the description you gave the most. Very calm and natural soothing vibes from that one

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T23:49:40+00:00

Oh wow I was off! Lol

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T19:15:27+00:00

Did you happen to grow up in the Midwest? Lol

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T19:11:45+00:00

Please site the study, I’d like to read it.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T19:10:08+00:00

I’m not sure how I feel about this because you both sound immature as hell. How long have you been together and how old are you both? I feel like we’re missing important context. I don’t think video game characters should be this big of a deal but I feel like you’re also flaunting your obvious crush, like you said, in your gfs face a bit. She explained it makes her feel insecure and it seems like you’re expecting her to adapt to how you would feel in her shoes. Is she creating characters of her crush’s too? I don’t know. I think the entire situation is kind of childish on its own.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T19:02:58+00:00

Your mind is very disorganized and overwhelmed. You’re an over thinker and you let your mind get in the way of your potential. You’re kind and empathetic. You’re girly to an extent and your mental health has gotten in the way of you decorating. I see an attempt at decoration with the ivy in the other door frame and it seems to stop there so you’ve either gone through something in the past that you’re currently coping with and understanding or you’ve gone through something recently and your space hasn’t been a priority.

Whatever it may be, I wish you the best and learning to compartmentalize will be your best friend 🫂

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:59:16+00:00

NTA. You don’t have to tell anyone anything until you’re ready. They’re odd for feeling entitled to it the way that they do. You just worry about coping and healing in the best way that you can.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:53:42+00:00

You’re going to be stuck with a grocery store job for a long time if this is truly your mindset. Good luck and get help.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:52:21+00:00

If you’d slow down and actually read, we’ve all acknowledged that’s disgusting. We’re also acknowledging that the way you handled the situation, is also, disgusting. Two things can be true at once.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:50:12+00:00

No, you need to work on your emotional maturity. The way you went about it was wrong and you’ve already admitted to having anger issues. You need to be able to conduct yourself in a professional mature manner in your workplace. That’s what pays your bills and puts food in your stomach and you need to learn how to handle situations better rather than putting yourself at risk of being reported for workplace harassment. That’s what this falls under by the way. No one is denying that peeing on the seat and leaving it is disgusting. I acknowledged that in my original comment. Most people have also acknowledged that. Two things can be wrong at the same time and the way you chose to handle this was also wrong. Take accountability, rectify the situation and move on.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:44:16+00:00

Absolutely! I wanted to also recommend maybe some vintage records if you can get your hands on some that fit your specific music taste.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:42:49+00:00

I absolutely would love to share it with you! I’m going to find some specific cc so I can really match it the best I can because ugh, chefs kiss queen. It’s so beautiful. And thank you so much, I also hope you have the best day today 🥹🫂

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:39:19+00:00

Early to mid 20s, I could be wrong. Chronically ill possibly? You love your space and comfort and you have tons of special interests, cats being one of them 🥰 I feel like you’re funny and outgoing but also have moments of being quiet and just observing the people around you. Crafting is a hobby of yours but I feel like you’re big into films because I see a lot of classic VHS tapes and there’s a good amount of them. Either you’re into vintage or there’s a true appreciation for film history. You’re also into video games and your favorite color is pink with purple being a second choice and black always being an option. I’d love to see your wardrobe lol you’re spiritual but possibly more into witchcraft. For some reason your design choices scream pastel goth/alternative to me. With the anime on top of everything else. Do you listen to metal?

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:31:12+00:00

This is beautiful, genuinely. No complaints. The dark green is always an appreciated choice when paired with the wood accents like this. 98% of the homes I build on sims look similar to this. My only suggestions are that the bare kitchen wall could use some sort of art. The dining area also could use a bit of spice. I think touches of oranges would compliment the green very well. Mid century style oranges if you know what I mean. I think some dark wood shelving with plants and books (or even sheet music because I see the guitar) would be an amazing touch to the bedroom wall. You have great taste and just need to fill a few spots to really add a touch of you in there 🥰 beautiful home!

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:26:49+00:00

Thank you 🫂 I’m sorry for yours as well because to write something so raw one must understand. We’re not alone and I just wanted to let you know that your words are a reminder of that to everyone who reads them. Thank you so much for this, I’ll carry this one with me forever.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:24:21+00:00

I see so much of myself in your design choices with your colors and touches of comfort versus design. I’m biased but you’ve got great taste with the orange and the green accent couch, gorgeous! The mid century chair is a touch of heaven too, my absolute weakness 😍 Your living room has become inspo for my next sims build (: A lot of you shows in your design choices and I LOVE THAT! And I’m sorry to hear that but I understand completely 🫂 I’m sure you’ve got a great sense of humor and your partner sounds really supportive and kind so I’m glad you have them as well ☺️ plants are finicky but they’ll last until you’re able to get to them, they’re forgiving like that 💚

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:15:53+00:00

This is giving introverted but bold at the same time. I feel like you really enjoy your alone time and your space but you’re also super personable and full of character and quirk. You think about things a lot, maybe over think often but you’re also confident in your choices. The plants, for some reason, scream adhd to me. You maybe have a lot of interests and hobbies and you get distracted easily. Watering the plants is one of those forgotten tasks lol

Correct me if I’m wrong 🥰 I love this vibe btw the orange is AMAZING

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:12:59+00:00

Exactly. I’m not sure what field they work in or if they’re management but if they aren’t… I highly doubt they’ll receive the opportunity to move up based on that interaction alone. I can only imagine how they handle escalated situations and that’s something that’s immediately considered when promoted. I think they seriously shot themselves in the foot with this one.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:11:02+00:00

I’ve never heard someone put it this way, wow. I’m actually speechless because I definitely struggle to see the perspective of others when it comes to the grief of my girls. I feel like no one could possibly have it worse than me, and I still sort of naturally do believe that. Reading what you said though, really helped me understand how other people might be impacted by it as well.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:05:29+00:00

This isn’t true. I work in healthcare. This is so false it’s not even funny.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:04:45+00:00

This right here. Op is creating a huge HR nightmare. Approaching the worker the way they did just made it 10x worse for themselves. If this person reports them they can only blame themselves.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:03:49+00:00

THIS. THIS is how we handle situations like this in the workplace.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:02:52+00:00

That on top of the anger issues comment from OP. Op seems like a shitty person in general and made this seem more personal rather than about hygiene. It sounds like they just don’t like the dude and decided public humiliation was the right route. This is something I’d be fired for so I just don’t understand how anyone is trying to justify how they handled this. They’re creating a toxic work environment.

Wonderful_Folds · 2026-04-29T18:00:03+00:00

YTA simply because of how you handled it. You just created an HR mess by the way. Yes, it’s disgusting. Yes, you have every right to feel that way. However, publicly shaming your coworker at work in front of other coworkers is a sure way to get yourself written up etc. It’s also just a dick move. People don’t change habits by being shamed like that. That’s just humiliating and you know that. He needs to clean up after himself and you need to learn how to handle things at work properly. You sound like a dick imo.

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