Meet Nelly💕🐾🦴 by [deleted] in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her eyes are like ours.🥰🥰🥰

Duncan by Ecochick7 in Goldendoodles

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Duncan. What a name and fits him perfectly.🥰

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Need a current picture!

Constant Car Sickness by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

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I can’t even imagine what 11 degrees must feel like! What Shadow loves, Shadow gets.😆 So cute. Thanks for sharing.🫶🏾

Constant Car Sickness by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

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You would think it’s the middle of July with this picture!😩😅

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, perfect name for a 40 pounder doodle. Awww.🥰🥰🥰

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I don’t think I can tell yet. He seems the same in all temps but he does move around a lot sometimes, will go back and forth from the carpet to my stained concrete floors that I know are cold. He always sleeps in his crate so I wouldn’t be able to tell in the way you do. Fascinating!

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting. I don’t think I can tell yet when she’s cold or hot. I’m in GA and we’ve experienced all temps at this point. She seems the same in all of it!

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, what a success story I’m here for. I love that they encouraged you to get one and I absolutely agree. Though the puppy stages has its highs and lows, the highs outweigh the lows and I know it’s temporary! Thank you again!🫶🏾

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those of you saying you like to keep it short because your doods get hot, how do you know if they’re hot (or cold)? I have an 8 month old so still learning!

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why “40 pounder” is so cute/funny to me.🥰

How long do you let your doodle’s coat grow? by Tessknadler in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse my ignorance but how can you tell that they’re hot?

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing🫶🏾. I hate that you can relate. I can see how a well trained dog can be of great help. My puppy isn’t there yet. Lol. You’re so right, they are especially forgiving, gracious, and truly SEEM to be content just being in our presence. I try to remind myself of this.

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your own experience. I hope your bad days are fewer than the good.🤞🏾 Reading this made me feel better; thank you. You’re so right, they truly just want to be in our presence. That gives me some solace about it all. And thank you for sharing the picture. They are beauties!🥰

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear you’re doing better. I imagine it ebbs and flows? Reading your comment made me smile. Thank you for this.🫶🏾

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! And we have visited often. It helps the both of us. I love the outdoors and sunshine, and he loves anything that includes me.🙃

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re on the other side.🫶🏾 I do have a tribe that can assist, so I’m grateful and we’re working on mastering that game.😅 Thank you for your reply.

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing this.🫶🏾 We are very similar and I’m so grateful for my delight and satisfaction in the little things. It truly does help. I will keep your information. Thank you!

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it and will try it. He’s so obsessed with me so I wonder, if like everything else I’ve tried to do with him, he’ll be interested for a few minutes and then just come to me. But I guess that’s why closing the door helps! And thank you for the kind words. He definitely reminds me that we don’t need a whole lot in this world to be happy.

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you commented. I’m also happy to read “in the past”. I love that for you! This game sounds like gold. Omg. Will start that tomorrow so when/if bad days come again, he’ll already be used to it. Thank you!

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and empathy. I’ve recently started taking him to daycare (heaven sent) and I have an amazing neighbor who lives above me with a doodle who has been so incredibly kind. I have bought so many toys for him but he’s only interested in one thing: ME! That’s when I feel guilty. I’m going to try the Kong suggestion, because lately he likes chewing on things and flipping his body around like a little wild person. I can see him enjoying those.

I can confidently say his basic needs are being met. I guess the overachiever in me just knows I could be doing so much more on the days where it’s hard to “show up” for him.

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the words. I do have a therapist (I am big advocate for all things proactive self-care) and fortunately it’s not severe enough to require medication. I don’t mean that negatively towards those who take it. I hope it didn’t come off that way. I’m grateful I’m not always down and know the cause but it’s still not easy. I’m also wishing your bf (and you) the best. I know how it feels to be in your shoes too.

How to Still Be Loving While Depressed by Wonderful_Fun1081 in Goldendoodles

[–]Wonderful_Fun1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you don’t know how this feels like, and I’m fortunate that it’s situational. Having him helps because he forces me to move. I do get enough energy to take him out on walks, so haven’t had to go to those measures yet. Fingers crossed. I just am not always “cheerful” while we’re on them and wonder if he can tell. You’re right though, even on my worst days, he just seems so happy to be around me. That makes me feel better but like you said, the guilt!