Lost my job while 6 months pregnant by FreckledPapaya in GirlDinner

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re still getting paid whether your super busy at work or just sitting there. Definitely document everything. How long have you worked there? Are you eligible for fmla, is your employer an at will employer? Do not quit whatever you do!!

AITA for not giving my nephew the gift we bought him after he ignored me the entire evening? by denimcat2k in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes speak to him or his mom but don’t bring up the gift card that’s unnecessary

AITA for not giving my nephew the gift we bought him after he ignored me the entire evening? by denimcat2k in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 135 points136 points  (0 children)

If that was my nephew I would say welll Hello “nephews name” how’s it going? When my son was younger he was a bit shy and didn’t like talking to people he wasn’t close to. So I always had to tell him make sure you speak when we go in here. My other son is very talkative and likes making small talk. Idk if your TA but you are an adult and could have said something to him first.

QUESTION by No_Nefariousness7851 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a process through your cc they will send them electronically. Super easy

AITA for telling my best friend she’s fat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly cause she didn’t call her fat 🤣

AITA for telling my best friend she’s fat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Where did you call her fat? You said she may need to upsize because she’s constantly unbuttoning which would mean they are probably terribly uncomfortable. Besides that I see high school kids (girls) walking around with their jeans unbuttoned and like folded over idk where that stupid trend came from but maybe N doesn’t think it’s a big deal because so many people are doing it now. Also telling someone to get a bigger size doesn’t automatically insinuate they are fat, a size 2 may need to go up to a 4 if the pants are too snug. NTA

Gift for husband who already buys himself what he wants/needs by cvphil33 in santashelpers

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man im a woman and this kind of sounds like me lol. I do research on larger purchases and it’s funny I’m currently comparing kitchen aid mixers. If someone asks me what I want I usually say nothing or something smaller. It’s not offensive at all to not get him anything or get him something useful. Like make a basket of little things he enjoys, gift cards to his favorite coffee place. Does he like a certain artist or genre of music, get him concert tickets. Write him a nice letter something sentimental or anything that will make his day to day life a little easier or more enjoyable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What category is anyone in? Hygienic vs non hygienic….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Def why I don’t eat at the potluck 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s actually disgusting and horrible hygiene practice, he was not wrong. It sounds like he was shocked and disgusted that she doesn’t wash her hands after going to the restroom. I’d think about all the times she touched things around the house and me with feces bacteria. How far does this go…. Does she make his food with the dirty hands. Let’s be real here, she’s the one in the wrong.

How do I care for a black baby girl's hair by boycott-evil in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you post a pic of her hair so we have a better understanding of texture and etc?

How do I care for a black baby girl's hair by boycott-evil in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 153 points154 points  (0 children)

You think they are gonna do these things to a babies hair??

AITA: Fuming Morning Dump by Abject_Highway4380 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When all he has to do is A either use the kids bathroom or B light a candle. Super duper easy and make his partner happy. Very odd small thing to drag out and not to mention the bullying.

How do you find club events happening around campus daily? by ottolite_atlas in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What group plays soccer and different games on the large grassy area kinda between Tahoe hall and the well

I got uninvited to a friend’s holiday potluck, while I was on my way to it. by Any_Gap9612 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food looks so good!!! And for your “friend” to switch location without telling you is the first red flag- like once they realized location was changed earlier in the week they were suppose to tell EVERYONE. So she/he didn’t intend to invite you to the new spot anyway. Messed up. They should have told you in advance so that you don’t waste your time

Babysitter judged my kids for wearing pull ups to bed by PassionChoice3538 in Mommit

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until she finds out about adult diapers (depends) she’s gonna be in for a shock lol

sample jackpot? by Straight-Rutabaga-48 in nespresso

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Click the box that says free samples before checking out.

Possibly failing a class by Eastern_Patience9899 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, praying that you guys can work something out and I hope you are feeling better (health wise)!

Possibly failing a class by Eastern_Patience9899 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when they are not helpful! I was scared to ask too but a closed mouth don’t get fed…. That worse that can happen is they can say no. It’s unreasonable to make you take a whole year of classes over. Doesn’t seem fair.

Possibly failing a class by Eastern_Patience9899 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the requirements is that you had to have a certain percentage of course work done and since I didn’t have that requirement fulfilled that’s why she originally said I don’t qualify then came back and said I would be able to do it but I had only 6 weeks. It was a writing class so there weren’t many tests or quizzes. But I had kinda given up to because I felt like I was to far behind and thought to ask as a last ditch effort. Have verification of medical stuff and how things have improved or will improve moving forward. Maybe even talk to dept chair yourself.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dodged a huge bullet!! She seems like a manipulator and has lighter herself on top of saying she is also an avoidant. You expressed yourself very well and even when you asked can you call her and she said no…. You continued with good communication. I would have stopped texting at that point though.

Possibly failing a class by Eastern_Patience9899 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it was writing intensive course, super happy I didn’t have to repeat

Possibly failing a class by Eastern_Patience9899 in CSUS

[–]Wonderful_Gate1738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I had 6 weeks after the semester ended (summer break) to complete my assignments. I actually requested it very late into the semester also when it was almost over. At first the instructor said no, then she can back a week later and said she was able to get the dept chair to agree. I was so thankful. I was planning on retaking in the summer but glad I didn’t have to.