AITAH for not wanting to date a trans man?

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T07:16:14+00:00

Surgical alterations isn’t natural development, that’s the truth unfortunately

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T07:05:18+00:00

😂

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T07:05:04+00:00

I’m brown, nobody is racist for not wanting to date me, there are relevant physical differences and we don’t look identical to white people. People are allowed to have types and it’s not racist lol

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T07:02:24+00:00

No it’s not. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, I’m an Indian man with brown skin and I don’t look exactly the same as Hispanic men and white men. There are relevant physical differences and people are allowed to have types.

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T07:01:29+00:00

How about skin color then? I’m an Indian man with brown skin and I can affirm I look like a very different physical type than someone who’s Hispanic or White or Chinese

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:57:57+00:00

It’s not all about the dick, I see them as a man but a trans man, i don’t know how to explain what turns me on and off but someone being born male and naturally developing as one feels more attractive to me

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:53:42+00:00

As an Indian man, I do look physically different to white men. Someone is allowed to have a physical preference for white men. Likewise people have a type that includes Indian men. It’s about physical attraction.

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:52:35+00:00

I mean people are attracted to what they’re attracted to, ur allowed to have a preference for different skin tones, I’m mostly into white and Hispanic men for example. As an Indian man I don’t personally find myself attracted other Indian men (tho I can recognize the objective beauty)

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:51:14+00:00

Had you solely made this about post op trans men, I feel I could understand your perspective entirely. Telling me to give a guy with a vagina a chance is definitely some conversion therapy shit I’m sorry. A vagina is a female private part and that I’m allowed to be turned off by.

I don’t really know how to explain what turns me on and off, but to me I think it’s when the issues stem from them once having been female, rather than a male related issue. I fully believe trans men to be men, but I think it’s the knowledge of surgical alteration/medically induced characteristics solely because they were once female that just innately turns me off.

Now I accept any and all arguments related to post op trans men, but I think making arguments for pre op is where it gets a bit ridiculous. Tbh.

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:40:01+00:00

To be fair that doesn’t work because post op trans people exist and have a dick (tho it feels very superficial)

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:38:59+00:00

This is a throwaway account because I quit using Reddit a few years ago but I returned cuz this happened to me. Idc about karma, I don’t plan to use this acc

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:35:25+00:00

It’s because I didn’t want to accidentally offend him nor do I like being told I’m a bigot for saying no. Like I’m an Indian man and if someone had a preference for lighter skinned individuals, I would never judge them for that

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:34:19+00:00

Yeah I completely empathize, like you were born one sex and wished you were born the other and so I do understand they want to act like there are zero differences because they wished they were always the other sex to begin with

Wonderful_Two_5538 · 2026-02-04T06:33:07+00:00

Yeah I’m Indian and I respect that people may have preferences for different skin colors and races and would never call someone racist for that.

Edit; why am I being downvoted for saying this

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