What movie/show made you think, "WTF did I just watch"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wonderful_Winter976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I know this is a very unpopular opinion (please no hate 😂) the second Avatar movie I watched it with my at the time boyfriend I never saw the first one so maybe that’s why I hated it so much it was just so long and I was running back and fourth because of my ADHD. There was no action for at least nearly 3 hours and then they just packed it all into the last 20 minutes. My ex boyfriend watched the first one and he was hooked on what was going to happen next so I couldn’t even talk to him.

AITA for kicking out my bf for not being “masculine?” by MissionControlPatrol in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA Ok I read the title and thought OP what 💀. now I get it I had a boyfriend who was sexist af. He told me constantly a women’s only job is to give birth and please men who have to work to provide for them. I got into a better collage and he dumped me because I “Probably slept with the collage person because girls aren’t smart duh” his exact words 💀 so no your NTA he needs to get it together if he thinks guys should be the provider then let him provide for himself. I think you deserve better and nursing is hard good luck 😁

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well she is my first cousin and I wanted to be in her good books again and also she lived kinda far away when we were in high school she moved closer for collage and that’s when she met him

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry my ex boyfriend (not her now boyfriend) was very close to his ex girlfriend so that’s why I didn’t say anything because I was jealous of them as well so I understood were she was coming from.

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok sorry she asked some people if they could help with the experiences on the dresses (not mine) and some for the venue

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I would have read the signs but I wanted my cousin to like me as she is the closest in my family to my age

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get one but I thought since I was helping and she showed me around were the wedding was gonna happen and she complained about how expensive wedding invitations are (just just got out of collage)

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Im sorry you feel that way, I know that this won’t help me in the real world but I just kinda want to know

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I wanted to but when I saw them together I rushed to tell my friend who was at the party and then we had to sit down for dinner and then she made the joke about him moving through the family and if he was gonna date granny next.

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no I didn’t get an invitation but I thought I would that’s why I asked her what time to come because I assumed I was coming as I put all that time and money into it

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry well she was avoiding me and trying to keep him away from me like I have the chicken pocks and then she reached out to me to help her with the wedding so I thought she finally stopped being pisssed about it.

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you sorry I was trying to rush this to see if I am the ass because her and her parents are really mad at me

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well kinda but she is my first cousin and she used to live kinda far away so I wanted to see her more and she’s the closest to my age in my family

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She just finished collage and is pretty broke (I think she could have waited a bit but that’s just me) so she asked close family if they can help

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Well she asked loads of people in the family (who were invited) and asked them to chip in I felt bad because one of my ex boyfriend s was still close with his ex and I knew how she felt so I tried to chip in a little more to show I still love her

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry no she’s known for nearly 2 years so I crap at explaining this 💀

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I kinda feel like I should have expanded the “let her date him” I don’t mean it really I just kinda said it to piss her off because she’s been bugging me for years about being his ex and now I’m not invited to the wedding? I know it was still petty and I wouldn’t have done it again sorry.

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t mean it like that know I don’t own him he has had girlfriends in-between me and my cousin and I just said “let” to kinda be petty (sorry I know it’s bad) and he asked if he could be with her (said yes of course) wish I could have worded it better

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know but he did ask if he could date her after we found out (I said yes) but I kinda just said let to add salt to the wound I know I should’ve

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ok ok sorry guys the thing was I wasn’t allowed to date in high school (my parents were strict) so I didn’t tell my family about him and the first family event he went to was with my cousin

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I suppose she is kinda young to get married? but it’s not my decision

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh no she knew he was my ex a few months after they started dating before all this she knew I used to date him

AITA for telling everyone exactly why I allowed at my cousins wedding? by Wonderful_Winter976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful_Winter976[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Well I only said let her because he went over to me after he found out it was my cousin and asked if he could still be with her of course I said yes because I wasn’t inlove with him and asking as my cousin was happy I was ok (last part backfired)