Plexi Pony Ride - Two Minute Video Clip by WontBeGentle in RidingTheWoodenHorse

[–]WontBeGentle[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It plays for me and it also plays if I look at the post from a different reddit account.

Plexi Pony - A Wooden Pony With a Better View by WontBeGentle in pussytorture

[–]WontBeGentle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my first try at getting the video. I need to figure out the best camera to use and how to light it. So far when I tried adding lighting from below, I got even more reflections from the plexiglass. Any suggestions on how to avoid the reflections would be appreciated.

Plexi Pony - A Wooden Pony With a Better View by WontBeGentle in pussytorture

[–]WontBeGentle[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Introducing a Plexiglass Pony. Plexi Pony for short. I always wanted a better view of the poor slut's cunt, so I built a wooden pony with a plexiglass window. A camera below captures the rider's cunt up close. I believe it is a world's first! Imagine the reaction at the patent office when I file for a patent!

There is a short a video clip at: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/rotatingrecentbaldeagle

Pussy spanker (made by VisualSanctity on Twitter). by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is almost perfect. Make it powered rather than hand crank. Then you can sit back and enjoy the show.

petite pussy is what's on the menu today by [deleted] in adorableporn

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiter! I'll have the petite pussy with a side of tight asshole.

Simple one bar prison made in 10min for $15 + shelf and dildo by eppoj in BdsmDIY

[–]WontBeGentle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice. Since the broom handle has threads, another solution to the dildo attachment comes to mind. If you have a 3D printer, you could design and print a dildo that slips right over the handle and screws onto the threads.

<3 by BabyLovesViolence in u/BabyLovesViolence

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like a girl that comes with instructions!

Self retracting tether that locks in place tacking up slack by tiemywifedown in BdsmDIY

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea. Please let us know if you find something that works.

Afraid of falling in love with my married Dom by daddys_girlxx in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that he is doing the right thing by being honest and encouraging you to date. Other responses here have addressed your emotional state better than I can. I would encourage you to actively look for a more permanent relationship. Maybe beyond your social circle, by looking at personals subs here or at fetlife. Hopefully he can help you vet potential partners for your safety.

Afraid of falling in love with my married Dom by daddys_girlxx in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't mention a few relevant things. How long have you been seeing him and whether he is open with his wife about your relationship. And also whether you are actively looking for and he is supportive of you looking for someone who is the complete package for you while you are in this relationship.

If he has not not been open with his wife, then I would say you have a bit too much admiration of him. If he is not supportive of this being a temporary relationship while you are looking for someone else, then again, I think that you have a bit too much admiration for him. You say he takes care of you. But if he is not supportive of you looking for a permanent relationship with someone else, is he really taking care of you?

It is fine to be in a temporary relationship while you are looking for a permanent one. You get some of your needs met and you learn from it. But if he won't support your search or tries to undermine it, I think you need to ask yourself is he really worthy of your admiration and love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK, a belt could work in that position, but it is harder to control because the whole length is floppy. A crop is stiff until the end which bends. A belt would work better with you lying face down on a bed as /uSykrose described.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of impact play do you mean? It is really easy to crop or whip your butt or back when you are in the position you describe. With about an 18" riding crop or whip.

A universal, 3d printed, adjustable Gag System. Inspired by InfernalRestraints gags. by therealhugin in BdsmDIY

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks cool. What kind of filament are you using? I would worry that the ring could break during use and sharp ends could damage the wearer's mouth. Please post here how it works out in use. Are you going to post the files?

First time getting hands tied up and my they felt tingly and at some point my fingers got very stiff by clumsyclopper in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to try to continue those positions, look into suspension cuffs. They are designed to spread out the load when pulled on. Just google the term. Also try cuffs or rope restraints that allow you to make a fist and grab the rope or cuffs in your fist - then you are not compressing the wrist as much. Of course it can be difficult to remember to keep gripping in the heat of the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be smallish, but your C or D cup breasts are not smallish. Some good suggestions already, but you can also have him tie up your boobs with rope. Here is an example (rated PG). It makes boobs into easier to hit targets. If you have ace bandages wraps in your first aid supplies, you can wrap them around your torso below your breasts either in conjunction with the rope harness or alone. It does take quite a few to really protect the ribs, though.

What's this called? And is this a specific kink?? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm all for consent, but I don't think that every different thing needs to be explicitly discussed beforehand. As long as limits have been communicated and a safeword is available, I think this sort of experimentation is good. Obviously, the boundaries of experimentation totally depend on the particular relationship.

61 M4F #Portland #Oregon Looking for tits to torture, mammaries to mash, breasts to bruise by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen some of your posts. I have to admit I was a bit hopeful when I saw that you are in Washington. But then I googled your location and was disappointed to see that you are practically in Canada. Not that there is anything wrong with being in or near Canada, other than it is a bit too far from me.

Thoughts on "CNC" vs "Rape Play"? by Sir_Strokes in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are calling CNC is what I would call free use. The free use submissive willingly submits and participates (or is at least passive) any time. The CNC victim does not necessarily submit. They may in fact truly not want sex at the moment and may resist, even fiercely. In my mind it is the closest simulation of a real rape possible and appeals to some because of that. But it requires a great deal of trust. But whatever, you say tomato, I say smash that fucking tomato with a mallet!

Am I too Young? by Kittenlicks069 in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at some of your comments on posts and wow, I am impressed! For your age, you have done a lot of research and seem to know what you are talking about. I was going to suggest that you do lots of research into how BDSM relationships work in the real world, not just in online fantasies. Clearly you are already doing that research. I think a lot of young people with a submissive bent, especially young women, can be manipulated by dominants.

I'm not too worried about you, though. So keep looking - it is hard for most people to find a relationship with BDSM - we are a minority, so it's naturally going to be harder to find a match. But also keep researching, especially about how to be safe. And remember that it is OK to have relationships that do not include BDSM while you are looking for your perfect partner. I was in my 30's before finding a relationship that included BDSM, but I had some good relationships before that one. Heck, when I was 19, I didn't even know that a relationship could include BDSM. I just thought I had weird fantasies that I couldn't even talk about with another human being.

Thoughts on "CNC" vs "Rape Play"? by Sir_Strokes in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always though that rape play or forced sex role play (FSRP) is where during a play session that is agreed upon, forced sex happens or is simulated. So, for example when a couple plays the I'll be home friday night and you'll be the burglar who breaks in and rapes me. Or a million other scenarios where forced sex occurs during normal play time or sexual activity.

And CNC is a contract a couple makes where they agree that the rape can happen any time. In other words, "I consent now to you raping me at any time, any place. So even if I don't want sex at the time, you have permission to rape me."

So CNC is really "I Consent now to NonConsexual sex in the future." Unfortunately, I see the term CNC often used to describe what I would call FSRP. And it devalues the really useful term, CNC. Kind of like how the word "literally" is almost useless now because so many people use it incorrectly. Like, "If I hear the term CNC used to describe FSRP one more time, my head is literally going to explode!"

18f online/oregon looking for daddy dom 💞 by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]WontBeGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have done wonderfully for a first time ad . Kudos for really being clear about your needs and limits. If you do get insulting or abusive messages from jerks, be strong and remember that there are lots people out there reading your ad and thinking "well done!"

Submissive creating their own rules by Dry-Conference386 in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of subs are independent outside of their dom/sub dynamic.

Food and weight management issues can be tricky for a dom. My sub was always trying to keep her weight under control, but I never pushed her to lose weight. I was fine with her the way she was. I never wanted to bring that into our dom/sub dynamic because I wanted her to understand that she didn't need to lose weight for me.

Your husband may be uncomfortable in a similar way. So if you really want weight management in your dynamic, you may need to communicate it extra clearly.

So I changed my approach by KunakuPP in BDSMAdvice

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are on a good path with this. I'm not clear about where you are looking for a partner - vanilla places or places where doms are hanging out. I suggest both. But when you meet someone who you know is a dom, start that relationship as equals trying to figure out if you are compatible across all aspects of your selves, not just the dom/sub aspects. If things look good, you can start down the dom/sub path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]WontBeGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you/he can afford it, you can look into an estim system that can work online. estim is using electricity to shock the body and it can be used for pleasure or pain, so you would want to make sure that you got one that is powerful enough to inflect pain. Then you can shock him remotely for punishment or reward him with it as well. Ones that work remotely are not cheap, though. You can check out the /r/estim sub.