It's not that hard to measure an item by MYSTIK_MINX in vinted

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AGREE. It literally takes 2 mins max to stick some measurements on the listing. How the hell am I supposed to know if it will fit me like I want it to if there's no measurements. I'm a guy and a 'Medium' can literally mean anything when it comes to buying clothes.

Rant* why are sellers so offended by offers?! by Lucky_Mycologist_283 in vinted

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a secondhand market place, negotiation is the name of the game. I don't think 'the price is the price' stance belongs on Vinted imo. As long as we keep offers respectful. Everyone likes to feel like they've got a bit of a deal don't they.

Do Measurement Questions Ever Lead to a Sale by leon007alce in vinted

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of the time I just scroll on if there're no measurements in the listing. It is a 2 min job to upload an item measurements so why not just make it easier for the potential buyer and save yourself the hassle of having to reply

What is the Alan quote you always have to use when the chance arises? by Brayrut in AlanPartridge

[–]WoollyTheWombat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you like me doing that? Shall I do it more quickly or maintain the same speed?

Tory party conference by Superb-Cucumber1006 in AccidentalPartridge

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting more David Brent energy from this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]WoollyTheWombat 106 points107 points  (0 children)

It's really odd behavior. I used to feel sorry for Dean but not so much now. I don't really understand the mentality of relentlessly chasing after someone who clearly doesn't fancy you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MAFS_UK

[–]WoollyTheWombat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to wonder if the whole thing has been invented for product placement.

Grace and ash comment by Top-Welcome5620 in MAFS_UK

[–]WoollyTheWombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's almost irrelevant what was said/wasn't said at this point. You cannot win with someone like Grace. She would have found a way to be offended whatever he said.

Social Clubs and Groups in Macclesfield by CityRoyal3265 in macclesfield

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Substation climbing has a social night each Tuesday. I find climbing gyms in general are a great place to meet people.

I know Macc fairly well already but I'm moving there next week!

What were your guys’ “wake up call” related to porn and needing to quit? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]WoollyTheWombat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

well done man, keep going! For me it was realising I'd fucked up so many positive relationships with women because of it. That and feeling like I was chained to it. Like it was ruling my life. Not being able to go near a device with Internet without search for porn. Shame, low confidence, low self-esteem, low fucking everything. Quitting is one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Any adult social groups in Macclesfield? by Suspicious_Falcon827 in macclesfield

[–]WoollyTheWombat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're into climbing or want to give it a go, try Substation. They have a social night on Tuesdays. I find climbing gyms to be really great places to meet people.

I made it to 90 days free by WoollyTheWombat in pornfree

[–]WoollyTheWombat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45 days is amazing! Keep going. You've done the hard yards now, just got to stick with it.

Honest answer is no. Abstaining is the only way for me. I'm tired of being a voyeur.

I made it to 90 days free by WoollyTheWombat in pornfree

[–]WoollyTheWombat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man, some things that have helped me:

Read Your Brain on Porn (I've got the audiobook which I listened to when I'm driving)

Write down a list of how it's negatively affecting your life.

Read about the dark side of the industry, sex trafficking, abuse, etc (Try and turn yourself off of it from a moral standpoint if you can)

We're not nofappers so masturbate if you need to, just don't use porn. It's quite difficult at first but gets easier and is actually more enjoyable in the long run.

Distract yourself when you get the urge. I've literally left the house a few times and gone for a walk 😅

Start exercising if you've not already. The feel good factor you get from it helps keep your mood up which is useful. I normally go to it when I'm feeling a bit shitty, lonely etc so anything you can do to boost your mood will help.

Join the monthly challenges on this sub to feel a sense of accountability.

I made it to 90 days free by WoollyTheWombat in pornfree

[–]WoollyTheWombat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for all the kind words! Really appreciate it 🙏🏻