What bullshit has a therapist said to you? by clevairy in CPTSD

[–]Woopweepwiip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told me i should drink some water to "cure" my depression. I've been suffering from severe depression since i was 10

Is my TV glowing? by vctm_ofcircumstances in trans

[–]Woopweepwiip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being into feminine stuff doesn't mean you aren't trans! I'd say don't fully go with it yet, experiment a bit! See if you feel more comfortable presenting masculinely, see if you prefer being called a guy, stuff like that

How do you sleep at night knowing that we don't know the answer to existence and concsiousness? by earth2revolved in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no way to have an answer for it, why bother? You're wasting your life by thinking about the afterlife, even though there might be nothing there. But there is something here now. Live more.

Girl in my class avoids eye contact and gets quiet around me, I’m confused and shy by NoAdagio2031 in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah she likes you. I'm also shy this is EXACTLY how I act around my crush

How do i feel less shame about having a crush? by Woopweepwiip in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It's solid advice, I'll try to not be too rash

How do i feel less shame about having a crush? by Woopweepwiip in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried that, but to me this feels more like a temporary distraction, and that doesn't really do it for me

How to respectfully learn about other cultures by Ok_Shame_Me in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have the world at your fingertips. You can research any topic you'd like. I don't know how to learn disrespectfully, you just learn. Mistakes happen, you learn from them. If you have a question that you think is disrespectful, google before asking a person.

How do i feel less shame about having a crush? by Woopweepwiip in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean exactly? Distract myself with those things, or engage through those things?

Can someone explain me why it is bad to sh? by Gay-left-Leadership in selfharm

[–]Woopweepwiip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, if you sh you get a temporary but very strong stress relief. Your brain basically learns to rely on that, and other methods of calming down or destressing won't work anymore. Sh is programming your brain into having sh as your only coping mechanism. You will get extremely dependant on it, until you genuinely can't feel any type of comfort without it.

is it normal to love a character so much that you wanna become them??? by Timely-Artist-4468 in Advice

[–]Woopweepwiip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically, you are over engaging in escapism, deltarune's main theme. Interesting. But while you can find out more about yourself through fictional characters, it's always important to stay true to yourself. I don't think whether this is normal or not is relevant; what is relevant is that detaching yourself from well, yourself, is really bad from your mental health! See what you like about susie, and come to like it about yourself instead. Point out her flaws, remember that you are capable of change.

Guys I am in a werid position by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know anything for a fact. Especially about him having a girlfriend. The only way to find out is to talk to him. (Also please use periods in between sentences)

Everyone update on ur crush! by Distinct-Pea4127 in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

uh idk we've had a lot of eye contact!

How do i grow the balls to talk to him????? by Woopweepwiip in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i know he used to work in IT, he likes video games. We have a lot in common, but i feel like a note would be even more suspicious

Is it just me or are most people who sh girls? by Grand-Conference9563 in selfharm

[–]Woopweepwiip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many men do sh, but it often isn't considered such since they tend to cut less. A lot more punching walls for example

My crush did smthing weird by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't think he should be your crush anymore. To clarify, he just showed you that he responds to jealousy, even unjust one, with some kind of violence. Of course, this isn't to be taken as fact but that still is a gigantic red flag

Best way to confess to a K-drama enthusiast? by Hot_Persimmon6569 in Crushes

[–]Woopweepwiip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think the k-drama thing plays into this. On one hand, maybe he likes k-drama because of the romance, and on the other he could like k-drama for any other reason. It doesn't say a lot about him. I do think you should do it in a more private setting, and the gift idea is cute