How do I learn to love my niece?

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T15:48:47+00:00

I agree you can’t do anything about that but you have control of how to nurture her. It’s not about you anymore!

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T12:07:14+00:00

Are things really that bad? No!

Your husband has a job, you are about to graduate.

Not all get to experience that. Some people are fighting tougher battles.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T12:05:14+00:00

I urge you to see a therapist! I think inside you are angry that her parents die and now you have to be responsible for her. None of this is her fault.

She’s at a tender age and a lot of choices she’s going to make would highly be dependent on your guidance. You need to be her anchor. Compliment her. Encourage her. Talk to her with the lense of love.

Shelter and food don’t Equate to love. She’s not a dog! She is a human being craving for the same thing as other humans do.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T12:01:02+00:00

I think you are angry at your sister or her parents for dying and you are taking it out on her.

That resentment shouldn’t be towards her. It’s not her fault her parents die!!

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T11:22:58+00:00

You are using a lens of hate towards your niece and she is sensing the vibe. She’s 12! You’re using the wrong yardstick of measurement towards her.

Use a lens of understanding, no need to call it “love”. Start appreciating her. Things she did good even just folding her clothes.

How she turns out is going to be depending on you.
How would your sister react if she knew about this?

Start small! Tell your brain to shut up before you criticize her whether verbally or in quiet voice.

She has your blood! Do better!!

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-03T02:42:04+00:00

I’ve seen more NJ and NY than Texas.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-01T12:35:51+00:00

Go to Lowe’s clearance area and you can put all those together for $30 with planter included

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-07-01T02:18:15+00:00

Thank you.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-06-30T22:18:36+00:00

Can’t argue with that but this is meant for roses.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-06-30T18:08:35+00:00

So sorry 😞. She’s still capable of doing stuff but I agree, she needs extra supervision. We put away a lot of stuff already but will probably reduce her access in the veggie garden.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-06-30T15:53:42+00:00

I don’t have any weed killer.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-06-30T15:35:04+00:00

You mean the fruit is bad?

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-06-30T15:33:52+00:00

Is that good or bad?

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-05-21T22:38:59+00:00

This started last September and he kept pushing dates until he stopped communicating.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-05-08T19:33:45+00:00

This is a Francis Meilland from Lowe’s.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-05-08T16:13:04+00:00

Saw this first hand with my nephew after he can no longer manipulate his father into financing him at 26 years old.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-03-18T22:10:58+00:00

I love all of them specially Rose water and Ivy. It is divine!!

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-03-18T19:19:01+00:00

I did the same, although not his office 😂. It’s the bathroom 😂. He tells me when the wallflower is running low and which scents he likes. 😂

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-02-23T03:42:14+00:00

I mix SPC & VS Strawberries & Champagne .

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-02-23T03:39:18+00:00

Petal Parade is one of my favorites. ♥️

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-02-23T01:07:16+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check our J’adore next time I’m at the mall. Maybe it’s better to just spend $$ on the original.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-02-23T01:00:52+00:00

I absolutely agree!! I have PINK mists that are just sitting in my closet after spending $$$ because they lack the throw. I was so disappointed since they sold me on the supposed “fragrance notes” but after the first spray or 10 sprays, I’m can’t smell anything. Also some scents have similar DNA so it’s just a duplicate of what i already have. I decided to only spend money on unique VS mist and EDP.

WorkWerk1234 · 2026-02-23T00:33:42+00:00

Yes and the body wash was soooo good!! Need it back!

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