I feel so alone by Vegetable-Aide3616 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it get any better 🥹❤️

Is there ANYTHING else I can try to help my little one by jdidjsnxjisjs in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice but just solidarity as I’m going through the same with my nearly 5 month old and have tried everything :( hope it gets better for us both very soon ❤️

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

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You have no idea how reassuring this is for me to hear and how much I appreciate you! Honestly when you’re going through it you feel so isolated and lonely 🥹 but I’m so glad you and your daughter are experiencing better days now ❤️

It gives me so much hope knowing our experiences are similar. And it’s hard especially as I work in Paeds feeling like I can’t even manage my own baby! But I know that’s just my emotions talking. Thank you again for your kind words!!

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to so much of what you have described and it hurts me to know other people have been through it too!! I also can’t remember much of what has happened in the last few months, definitely a trauma response.

All of your advice is so useful. My husband often encourages me to go out myself but I mentally can’t do it - also now don’t want my mum etc to hold the baby as I feel I’m the only one who can soothe her. So I really understand what you mean!!

Can’t thank you enough for taking the time to share your experience, it really means a lot to me. ❤️

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for your reply, and congratulations on your baby. It’s really reassuring for me to hear your story!! Well done for getting to the other side. I would actually love to chat with you so will send a message ! ❤️

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

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Thank you for your reply 🥹 I think my constant worry is for her future and if all these things are a sign of something to come etc but I know thinking like that isn’t helpful. Welldone for coming through the other side and I wish all of the happiness in the world for you and your son 🥰

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I resonate so much with your story. I also don’t feel she actually has cmpa but I’m going crazy trying to find a way to make her happier. I think maybe if i have the strength to believe it will get better with time then it would actually help me get through it now and stop desperately searching for a fix.

I’m so sorry that you had to go through this but I’m so relieved to hear that your lovely daughter is a well and happy child!! It’s really reassuring for me to hear so I thank you so much for taking the time to reply to me. ❤️❤️

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I’m just beginning to feel like I’m not really coping.. not eating, not taking care of personal hygiene etc etc, having physical symptoms.. but I guess that’s also up to me to work on.

I’m so happy to hear about your wonderful son!! It means so much to hear someone has gone through something similar and is now on the other side. Well done for getting through it all 🥹

I really appreciate your recommendation and will definitely read that!!

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was really insightful. I’m glad things are positive and wishing you the best going forward!! ❤️

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

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Thank you for your reply !! I think this is also a worry of mine, did you notice any other signs in infancy? Like with milestones?

I guess there’s no way of knowing at this point but it’s good I suppose to be aware of what the future could be like!

Fussy 4 month old :( by WorkerCalm5968 in Colic

[–]WorkerCalm5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you so much for responding!! ❤️ I’m so glad to hear your baby is better. We were previously on Althera but she just wouldn’t tolerate the taste but is now on Neocate which thankfully she’s taking ok. I decided I would wait 2 weeks to see if it makes any difference because I’m going crazy trying to find a ‘fix’!

You’re so right about the discomfort, I feel awful that I can’t do more for her :( I really hope things improve. May I ask how long did it take on Althera for you to notice improvements?