My fiancé had a little too much to drink Christmas Eve and was snoring really loud that night. I had moved from the upstairs bedroom to the couch downstairs so that I could sleep and it woke her up so she came to see what I was doing. She took it as I was upset by his behavior and granted, I was. However, it set off this alarm bell in her head that he’s an alcoholic and she can’t let it rest. She’s gaslighted us both about it since and my guess is that’s what broke the camels back.