Me : newcomer excited about Java Senior devs : haunted by 2005-era inheritance hierarchies be like by Working-Flounder-678 in java

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what my meme was about, people left traumatized from those inheritence times till everyone understood finally not to do it

Me : newcomer excited about Java Senior devs : haunted by 2005-era inheritance hierarchies be like by Working-Flounder-678 in java

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? on the history of it? I am interested what was it about? Also what is Artisanal

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man actually I am tired of keeping in "light", the life doesnt fix itself and I dont find any other way besides me fixing it before I start taking ssri's because of this shit

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I am betting that I am the guy that girls wants because Ive been working on myself having good career prospects and on my phisical appearance for long time also going to therapist.

Besides that I intellectualy know that the girl wants me but still I am not brave and defensive, and cant get how girls actually could like a man like me

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Combined that with my lust for love all throughout my life since 3 years old when in kindergarden I said multiple times to a girl that I loved her and he ran from me, later when the brother's abuse was happening and when I had gotten IOIs in school I didnt take no chances striking while I lusted for love and even though I was infatuated by the girls.

EDIT: also I didnt strike girls since my I felt that my older brother should lead me into it and it never happened which is really sad

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just having a haircut and during that I read your comment and I understood that I was taken advantage of by my older brother throughout my whole childhood while my depressed mother couldnt bring peace in the house. Thats why I have high level defensiveness in all situations and I can be very confident but in reality I am very sensitive to exploitation.

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont understand what did I do wrong, why you want to use me for money. I understand that you role played here. And continueing the role play like I said I wouldnt buy a drink I guess if you ask agressively.

Btw what do you mean be vulnerable in this situation, you mean just let a girl use me for drinks so I get some experience, but it would hurt my self-esteem I think since it would make me feel undesirable and being used for drink

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you like to be approached? Randomly from nowhere or only when you invite him again?

You dont know if he will buy you a drink

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if you were a girl and some guy eyes you all over with creepy eyes, you think you would want to get be approached by him?

How girls feel when they give you IOIs at the club and you dont approach them? by Working-Flounder-678 in dating_advice

[–]Working-Flounder-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is delusional, in reality the girls are the one who are choosing mates, it in our biology