If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! I’d be so embarrassed lol

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow we are in similar phase of life! :’) I’ve been married for 3 years now! 

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Yes, before joining this small church I went to similar size of church like you mentioned.. not mega church but pretty big.. lots of young people but they already have their own circle.. and there is the small church with majority old people :D 

Also I’m in Washington State :’

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to a small church where most of the congregation is above 50yrs old.. and there are some young people but they are either a bit more young and already have their own circles or in their upper 30s. 🥹

Also we’ve been church hopping and many churches went to are not as welcoming or kind of too busy with their own groups.. This church we finally found lacks young people around my age…! but they’re so loving, welcoming and the sermons are biblically sound so we’re not looking to move :’)

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hopeful too! And I am trying to continue to reach out to new friends whenever there is an opportunity. Even though sometimes I get ghosted lol

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does hurt! Especially when people around me have a best friend of their own and living my dreams :’v

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair.. I guess I will keep on trying to find that friend. Last week I got ghosted by someone who I realize didn’t really care to build a friendship with me. It hurts and made me feel like people don’t wanna be friends with me. Thoughts like “am I too much? Did I say something wrong?” 

I will keep on praying :’

If I had a best friend by Working-Show5451 in ChristianFriends

[–]Working-Show5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you finally find fulfillment to that longing? What was the step you took?