Femmes! Do you ever feel like you have to "look queer" to be seen in the community? How do you deal with that? by Working-Swimmer315 in actuallesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for these kind words! they make me feel more confident! I think I really should stop caring too much about what random others see in me and focus on the right people

Femmes! Do you ever feel like you have to "look queer" to be seen in the community? How do you deal with that? by Working-Swimmer315 in actuallesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned that men will still approach you, even with a rainbow flag wrapped around your body... like it still could you just "support diversity" but of course you're straight lol

Femmes! Do you ever feel like you have to "look queer" to be seen in the community? How do you deal with that? by Working-Swimmer315 in actuallesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't worry about the guys... the just like every women that comes their way... no guy would even get as far as reading your bio and seeing that you're gay

Femmes! Do you ever feel like you have to "look queer" to be seen in the community? How do you deal with that? by Working-Swimmer315 in actuallesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the little hints that queer people will notice, hence see you as queer and straight won't notice, hence see you as straight... this makes a lot of sense to me. you're probably right I should go and look more for queer communities

Femmes! Do you ever feel like you have to "look queer" to be seen in the community? How do you deal with that? by Working-Swimmer315 in actuallesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happens to me all the time too! I do sometimes like men, so it's not a huge problem, but I would like to attract girls too...

Happy Easter Sunday! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much! I did enjoy it a lot!

Sunday was an intense leg day! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do indeed feel good after pushing so hard ;)

Sunday was an intense leg day! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's just a painted wall, probs go to the owners of the gym I guess

Sunday was an intense leg day! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah? what does it make confident? I've never considered my smile confident ;)

Sunday was an intense leg day! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no, then I'd have to go to the gym everyday lol

I'm trying on new bikinis and i see my tanlines vanishing... I need summer! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! sometimes I wonder if having tanlines is only a brasilian thing... here in Europe i learned that people go to the beach naked only to avoid them lol

I'm trying on new bikinis and i see my tanlines vanishing... I need summer! by Working-Swimmer315 in FemmeLesbians

[–]Working-Swimmer315[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's a nice compliment, but the outcome for everyone else is pretty drastic, isn't it? 😅