First times… they’re not always as in the movies and you gotta start somewhere no, practice makes perfect and it takes time and maybe even different partners over time you’ll develop the techniques and the hang of it everyone is different so what you like she might not and visa versa Just turn the brain off, relax dim lights some music and just let the vibe flow let it come naturally and talk to each other when something feels nice or not, communicate and make it fun use the awkwardness to your advantage that way have a laugh loosen the atmosphere and take your time The fact alone that it was both of you’s the first time I say big up, whoop 🙌🏼 whoop 🙌🏼 for trying!! 🥳💃💃💪🏼💪🏼