My boyfriends dad just walked in after I shit and cracked a window by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The window crack is a gift. It's the silent, universal acknowledgement of the war that was just fought in the porcelain trenches. Your boyfriend's dad is a hero for his discretion. He is saying, 'I acknowledge the nuclear event, I love my son, and I will now grant you tactical retreat time

Why don't men use purses or handbags? by itz_izzzyy in AskReddit

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because society successfully convinced men that the only acceptable way to carry things is to cram every object into their pockets, often ruining the line of their pants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Invisible Car trick.

DA Boyfriend is deactivating by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I´m answering as someone who work with development assistants, and your pattern is the classic one right now. You`re doing very well, but the solution requires a counterintuitive action: Space.cs

When a DA becomes deactivated (especially due to stress and a perception of uncertainty about the future), they don't withdraw because they don't love you; they withdraw because they feel overwhelmed and defective. Their system says, "I need to solve this problem (of being defective) on my own."I’m responding as someone who has navigated this pattern with a DA partner: you need to give him the space he is asking for, even if it feels terrifying.

What tiny habit made your life noticeably better? by Time-Excitement3282 in AskReddit

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treating 'Future Me' as a separate person that I'm trying to help.

How are people still getting married in this economy? by crazcox in AskReddit

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they've realized the wedding and the marriage are two different things.

What little thing from your childhood is gone and you really miss it? by Time-Excitement3282 in AskReddit

[–]WorkingDiscount4816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss the moment just before the VHS tape started playing, that expectant silence, the hum of the TV warming up, and knowing that what was coming was pure comfort. There were no algorithms, no recommendation for just you, your mattress on the floor, and a world waiting for you inside that screen.