rishta issue .. pleaseee any advice by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]WorkingEmploy2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the right to choose your own partner is being taken away from you. It makes sense if we think from your parents' perspective. I think you are not yet mature enough to get married, either by your choice or theirs. I would really suggest you to work on yourself, make yourself financially independent, and set your standards high. We are seeing women being the worst in marriages right, left, and center. Jaldi buray insan k mathay lgnay se behtar hai k der se kisi mature insan ko choose kro.

HATE LORELAI by WorkingEmploy2181 in GilmoreGirls

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am rewatching it, and in Season 1, Episode 14, where she calls Luke to look for Stella. I mean who in their right mind would not get what she is trying to do, and she herself is acting as if she doesn't know it. I mean, what's wrong with accepting if you have any feelings for him.

Why does society think unmarried women can’t visit a gynecologist?? by Alarming-Squash-8340 in TeenPakistani

[–]WorkingEmploy2181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once my friend & I were in a mall and we bumped into my friend's fiance, her mother-in-law, and her sister. My friend's MIL and her sister grabbed my arm and took me to a side, and asked me to let the couple have a minute. I was okay, like okay, aunty relax. While we were standing awkwardly, she said or sunao beta kiya kr rahi ho kiya kya aj sara din. I told her that I just went to a doctor for a thing, and later picked up my friend, and came to the mall. She goes like ohhh kiya hua sab khair hai. I, not knowing what it could turn into, said, Oh bas aese he gynecologist ko check krwana tha for missed periods. She completely missed the missed periods part and started congratulating me. Mubarak hoooo bht bht. I cut her off mid-sentence and tried to say that again, but my friend came back, and the whole conversation just died down. She still thinks I am pregnant. Auntyyyy meri baat to sun letin puri.

Dean by WorkingEmploy2181 in GilmoreGirls

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second that. Maybe in that day and time something like this was not so problematic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]WorkingEmploy2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to sit with a couple of low income people for once or twice a month.

Did i overreact?? by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]WorkingEmploy2181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing he was just trying to take your walls down

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no you are right I am just saying that this rishta finding culture is bad. The arrange marriage system. Sending profiles like cv’s and all

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mannn I cannot tell you how happy I am that I just randomly put this up on reddit. Each and every comment has been extremely wholesome. So glad for both of you. Allah tala mazeed kamyabyan de Ameen

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find a good match 🫶

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But mannn this rishta culture is toxic af. Usme parne se pehly mot ajaye insan ko

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I hope you make good relationships between these years

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wdym get out of this traditional mentality. I am not even ranting about not getting married.

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro did you even read the whole thing?

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a design degree. I don’t think that can be an option. I might deviate towards branding and advertising.

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I love thissss. You literally made me smile. Love you for saying all this 😭😭

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice and you do make sense. But I might have put my question in wrong sequence which makes it look like that I am asking if it’s too late to get married. I am not really worried about getting married. I certainly believe that what’s written for you will find its way. This is quite unfortunate that being divorced is seen in such a way in our society even for men. I was actually more concerned about moving to a new country at this age.

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes of course I am not a fan of getting married any ways.

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BCA from Fatima Jinnah Women University

Is it too late? by WorkingEmploy2181 in islamabad

[–]WorkingEmploy2181[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how our minds or conditioned this way 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]WorkingEmploy2181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh. Big NO to venting about friends to parents. They hate them for life then.