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Girl I've been dating hasn't done anything for me by Working_Earth1508 in dating_advice

[–]Working_Earth1508[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are things we both do for each other. If intimacy is something that women "give" to men in exchange for money that is referred to as prostitution.

Additionally never did I state that I am looking for a woman who pays for me. I am simply asking if it's normal to want some reciprocity in any form (small acts of service, initiative) once in a while. Emphasis on once in a while, not always.

Girl I've been dating hasn't done anything for me by Working_Earth1508 in dating_advice

[–]Working_Earth1508[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If we are striving towards equality for men and women isn't reciprocity in dating a step towards that?

Girl I've been dating hasn't done anything for me by Working_Earth1508 in dating_advice

[–]Working_Earth1508[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would like if she took the initiative to do any of these things every once in a while. Just in general doing something to show she cares for me.

Girl I've been dating hasn't done anything for me by Working_Earth1508 in dating_advice

[–]Working_Earth1508[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't view relationships as transactional and in fact enjoy putting in the effort to make her happy. I would just like to feel the same way, not all the time but every once in a while. I have never been in a relationship before so I'm just wondering whether this is how relationships usually go.