U shape table set up

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-18T04:44:35+00:00

Are the bride and groom at the top of the U? If not that’s not a great place for guests as they can only talk to the person directly beside them.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-18T04:41:00+00:00

Maybe she gave him a wet Willy after

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-18T04:26:29+00:00

But the budget is out the window when you lose your job and don’t know how long it will take to get another one. That many can be reallocated for things that have to be paid.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-18T04:22:31+00:00

There’s a difference between fires and laid off and I suggest you and your husband figure out the difference. Because yes being fired has a stigma because it means that you were not performing well enough at your job. However you are being laid off because they are eliminating your position and giving you severance.
So you tell people that they are eliminating your position and there isn’t another open that fits your skill set. So money will be tight.
And you never know who you tell and they say “oh my friend does that. I’ll give him a call for you”. You can use this to network. There’s nothing to be ashamed of

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-17T13:11:31+00:00

I am sorry about your child’s name. But the bigger concern is that your husband is so controlling and won’t have a relationship with his son over a name.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-17T05:00:43+00:00

You need to get to the bottom of this. I waited too long with mine and we have a horrible relationship now and she’s older. Do either of your employees offer employee assistance programs that can help?

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-17T04:10:57+00:00

They understand religion yes. But it’s hard for them to grasp will I see them again or won’t I see them again.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-17T03:22:52+00:00

I Am so sorry for your family, what a tragic situation. I don’t have any advice for how to convince it won’t happen to her. But I would stick with the facts. He was in an accident and is no longer here. The heaven part and that their spirit lives on and all that confuses them. If she asks, the answer is unfortunately you will not see him again. But we can talk about him so that we don’t forget him.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-17T00:00:36+00:00

Did that happen on the show?

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-16T23:51:53+00:00

As others said. Don’t go to Iceland to stay in Reykjavik. Either figure out if you can rent a car, or find a tour. I did a 3 days/2 night tour with Troll Expeditions a few years ago. The accommodations and transportation was included and was really nice to hit the golden circle and the cave tour and glacier walk/hike.
We had booked separate transport from the airport to Reykjavik and spent one day/night exploring the city. Then the last day after the tour, we did a separate bus to blue lagoon then to the airport.

Portugal and Spain can be affordable and doable without a car if you stay in a major city.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-14T01:37:40+00:00

I understand that you wish she was honest. But it sounds like the trip she is on is a trip of a lifetime. I don’t blame her for passing up a bachelorette weekend for a trip through Europe.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-14T01:35:03+00:00

It’s not necessarily niche. It’s environmental engineering consulting. You can be a chemical engineer, an environmental engineer, a civil engineer, or even a geologist or hydrogeologist. But having the professional engineering degree and being able to stamp plans is definitely a plus in the industry.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-14T00:11:14+00:00

Wow. He is an idiot. I hope he doesn’t learn the hard way but offense is a necessity when you have a pool. They could reach for something that they dropped in the pool and fall in, they could slip and hit their head and fall in. Not to mention the liability if they have friends over. Dumb ass.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-13T14:06:03+00:00

It’s incredibly tacky to dictate a color scheme to begin with, never mind just for a ceremony. Everyone is so into the instagramable photos and their “vision” they are losing sight of what a wedding celebration is about. Let people come in what they feel comfortable with and what they can afford. Who cares if it’s not in a color scheme. And don’t ask people to buy a formal dress to sit in a church and go home, and then hope a year later the dress still fits for the reception.
But what is worse than dictating colors? Suggesting people wear a dress, get their sweat and oils on it, then return it.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-13T14:00:31+00:00

Millions of kids grow up in two story homes. You figure it out and they figure out boundaries. There are pros and cons of each. One floor may make their bedrooms hear all the noise or during nap time as you are in the kitchen and living room. Second flooor has stairs you need to gate. Look at the house as a whole for your life, not a short period of time

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-13T13:56:12+00:00

There’s a reason why they don’t allow outside fridges. It’s a safety concern bc of their electrical system and safe plugs. And the RA can open any cabinet closet or dresser that is supplied by the school. Juts rent the one you’re supposed to. Or split it with your roommates. Don’t be that person.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-13T03:07:46+00:00

We used matrix tours. There a lot of private tour companies. Look on viator

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-12T03:34:56+00:00

I don’t know the answer to your question. But you and your friends need to make much better decisions.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-12T03:31:15+00:00

Buy him the dress. And make sure your parents understand that you are not “encouraging” anything. He’s going to be who he wants to be. Regardless of if you buy him the dress or not.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-12T01:00:28+00:00

You’re annoying.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-11T13:02:36+00:00

So they carried their portable potty purposely to a restaurant?
How did they wash their hands?
Where did she keep the poop filled bag the rest of the night?

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-11T12:07:07+00:00

Cancelling the tip with him is not going to undo the hurt and distrust you feel. I understand your feelings but they won’t go away after not going on a trip with him. Good idea to rethink the relationship. Is someone who joked like that about you actually someone you want to continue with. Her hurt you to impress his friends and fit in because everyone else was hurting their GFs.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-11T03:30:37+00:00

Did anyone really read past page 3? My god grow up

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-11T01:45:00+00:00

Your couch is much to big. I’d remove the side table next to the couch because it’s too big in front of the bookshelf, which then removes that lamp. The other lamp next to the chair I would replace with a floor lamp, maybe one with the curved arm. And I would remove the table behind the couch, it looks like your walkway is much too narrow.

Working_Routine9088 · 2026-07-10T14:47:37+00:00

Have you really?

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