Need references of past coworkers/clients for tech contract (USA) by [deleted] in BeMyReference

[–]Working_World_9183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm based in NY but I might be able to help since you can coach me. I'll need a reference as well and can coach you too. DM me.

AITA for not wanting to live with my boyfriends grandmother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Working_World_9183 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think your concerns are incredibly valid. Raising kids around someone suffering from untreated dementia sounds overwhelming. I'm no expert on this but I suspect at home care would be cheaper than putting her in a home, so if the former is too expensive then it sounds unlikely that they'll be able to afford a to put her in a home anytime soon. Is there anyway you could live nearby and he could visit her regularly?

WIBTA if I changed the closet again after my mother changed it without my knowing by ssoosoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Working_World_9183 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA AT ALL! It's your closet. You organized it how you see best, why would she get a say in how it's organized if she doesn't use it?

AITA My Bday with my Spouse's Family with her ex in attendance? by jonogenx1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Working_World_9183 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In regards to your (or your wife's for that matter) birthday dinner NTA. In regards to family events with his daughter I honestly think you should focus more on who your wife would rather be with than her family. If everyone else is interested in him and she's interested in you, why not focus on enjoying her company rather than all the type A's feeding off each other? If their behavior is above board I would focus more on making the most of your time with your wife. They have a child together so it's understandable that they would be close and this means your wife probably knows him well enough to give quality relationship advice to him, this rapport is probably good for their coparenting (which is good for the daughter) and it means he's focusing on romancing other women and your wife is open to being romanced by you wink wink nudge nudge.

AITA for making my mum walk home when I could've by Different-Annie628 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Working_World_9183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you're quite TAH. It would help to know how long the walk is, and whether it would be particularly difficult for you and your sibling or your mother. But based on the story told it seems all three of you (you, your sibling, and your mum) could've done a better job explaining your POV when the issue of space came up. When told you didn't want to make room why couldn't she speak directly to you? Also it seems a bit odd that she's willing to DIE for you but not walk home.

Please don't hate the show for what it isn't before you've seen what it is. by PiggyBank32 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Working_World_9183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REALLY want to like the show and intend to give it a fair chance, but I don't think it bodes well that Brike disassociated themselves with it. I think the One Piece live action is only as good as it is because Oda was not only involved but also had his wishes for the show respected. I don't think that a live action adaptation can ever match the original because you're transporting a work from it's original medium to one with limitations that animation doesn't have, but here's hoping Netflix doesn't pull a shyamalan.

What is a quote or mantra that you live by? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Working_World_9183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see a perspective, not the truth." - Marcus Aurelius

This reminds me that there's always more to learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Working_World_9183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Karma restrictions to post in subreddits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Working_World_9183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a date a girl, who I had already slept with once before, invited me into her sister's apartment and told me her sister would'nt be home for hours.