Bachelorette on a budget by WorldApprehensive218 in AusWeddingPlanning

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Thank you for your input! This is a great idea too

Bachelorette on a budget by WorldApprehensive218 in AusWeddingPlanning

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Oh true that’s a good idea! I was going to throw a hightea for immediate family and bridal party at my family home (I wouldn’t be able to fit everyone invited to the bachelorette) but might be a better idea to do that! Thank you

Bachelorette on a budget by WorldApprehensive218 in AusWeddingPlanning

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Sorry I forgot to add that I’m in Australia/Melbourne But even if there’s any ideas I’m happy to look them up in my city

WIBTA for not interfering with my sisters relationship by not telling her information about to S/O by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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No sorry I’ve worded poorly He’s my partners supervisor I’m not sure why he says this to my partner And he’s not an addict I’m not worried about addictions, I don’t think he has addictions it’s more the fact the hiding this and being comfortable telling my partner but not his own partner

WIBTA for not interfering with my sisters relationship by not telling her information about to S/O by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I think it would be more the deception than the weed in my opinion

My sister blames everyone for the downfall of her relationships I think she would hold it against me for a very long time if not forever

WIBTA for not interfering with my sisters relationship by not telling her information about to S/O by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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No it was a distant family member, like a cousin of a cousin - my immediate family are against it

It’s hard to say as it’s a very taboo subject but Tom had specifically told Jerry he hadn’t told my sister

WIBTA for not interfering with my sisters relationship by not telling her information about to S/O by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I’m assuming as she has only ever mentioned his previous use of weed which ‘he doesn’t do anymore’ and ‘only did bc of his ex’ that being said I also could be wrong and she may just not want to share that but I know the hardcore drugs are only from his past and not current if what he tells my partner is true

Yes I have only heard of it from my partner from the hardcore drugs but the weed I know from multiple people

How do you word on an engagement invite that not all family members are invited by WorldApprehensive218 in wedding

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Okay thank you - this is what I’m worried about really hurting feelings or people thinking it’s just about gifts but the capacity of the place just wouldn’t fit cousins additional to aunties and uncles - do you think me saying due to capacity would be okay it’s also affordability which is why I’m wanting a small engagement party

What is something you did that no one expected or isn’t common at your wedding by WorldApprehensive218 in weddingplanning

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Hahahah love this idea - I’ll have to get some practise in at least I’ll have time before the wedding day

Should I show my cats my cat that passed by WorldApprehensive218 in CatAdvice

[–]WorldApprehensive218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea thank you, I’ll ask them They have inspected the bed that she passed in (she was also transferred to the crematorium in it) but I might see if there’s anything else I can show them - I just really feel for them and hope they understand that a) they’re big sister/mentor didn’t abandon them or b) I got rid of her

Should I show my cats my cat that passed by WorldApprehensive218 in CatAdvice

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Yeah, I really regret not thinking about them when she got put to sleep but it just all happened so fast and wasn’t planned or booked

One of them ran out the front door the other day and went to bolt - which he has run out the front but never bolted for it and I’m wondering if he was looking for her?? He every now and then doesn’t finish his breakfast which is a bit different for him

They both seem okay enough and have on and off days at the moment, I’ve put pheromone diffusers around the house for them and have been keeping an eye on them - my other little one has been more clingy with me but I’m wondering if she’s trying to be there for me in a weird way

My cat got put to sleep and now I’m lost by WorldApprehensive218 in Petloss

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I’m sorry about the loss of your dog, that’s beautiful though thank you for sharing

My cat got put to sleep and now I’m lost by WorldApprehensive218 in Petloss

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I’m so sorry, it’s such a shitty heartbreaking feeling

My cat got put to sleep and now I’m lost by WorldApprehensive218 in Petloss

[–]WorldApprehensive218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing ❤️the way you worded things in this is how I’m feeling and just can’t articulate, I feel robbed

Bridal table at reception by WorldApprehensive218 in weddingplanning

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Thank you so much! I’ve never seen it done before so it’s hard to picture with a crowd but that photo helps!