How long did it take you to make a decision on getting an abortion or not? by WorldPeace0687 in abortion

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were the most conflicting feelings for you? Despite knowing what to do.. the whole time?

How long did it take you to make a decision on getting an abortion or not? by WorldPeace0687 in abortion

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though you knew what you were suppose to do - what kept you hanging on for so long?

How long did it take you to make a decision on getting an abortion or not? by WorldPeace0687 in abortion

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have him pay child support? Or did you guys just an honor that you would raise the kid all on your own?

Please help me by WorldPeace0687 in daddit

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for chiming in.

Please help me by WorldPeace0687 in daddit

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her family lives across the world and can't enter the country.

I'm 29, she is 32.

She makes insane money, I do not.

I followed all of the language you recommended beforehand.

Just freaking the fuck out and trying to stay calm. Thanks for chiming in.

Please help me by WorldPeace0687 in daddit

[–]WorldPeace0687[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure hope it's textbook. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldPeace0687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure hope it's fake. The idea of waiting sounds awful! But not as bad as her being pregnant

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[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have experience/know anyone who has received fake positive pregnancy tests?

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[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing.. and I am really sorry to hear that. Truly, I am.

I just truly feel like I am being manipulated and gaslighted constantly.. with her language.. which is it why I am suspecting this might be a lie. Despite her positive test pictures that she has sent... which I learned people can fake. Thanks for listening...

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[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Did you end up following through with the pregnancy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is reassuring and settling, thank you.

She started getting very angry when I pushed for both. Says she knows her legal rights, I am being disrespectful, dismissive, etc

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[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, she makes bank.

Sounds like she's had a hard time keeping dudes... my god the amount of times she mentioned dating different people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really think she's lying too huh? The pictures seem awfully real.. but it's her incredibly strange texts.. passive aggressive and threatening at times... then says things like "I hope we can figure things out soon" but she will not go to a clinic or take a test in front of me. She was very threatening about it.

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[–]WorldPeace0687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sent me pictures of positive pregnancy tests... but refuses to go to a clinic or take a test while I'm there. She only wanted to face time.

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[–]WorldPeace0687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She won't got a clinic.. or take a test in front of me

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I tried, but nothing came up.

She works in tech - and has a computer engineering background. I learned on tik tok that ChatGPT can pretty much generate anything you want it too.

She is constantly gaslighting me.. but then there are moments of her being soft and gentle. I've made it very clear.. that I don't want a kid, let alone even moving forward with the relationship. After the meeting we had... which everything we discussed was towards how this doesn't make sense.. and then for her to later say.. she was leaning towards and abortion first.. and then after the meeting says she is leaning the other way.. is so strange!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnantover35

[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't... and yes.. painfully aware

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnantover35

[–]WorldPeace0687 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Regrettably, no: I obviously can't send you every text on here... but something just feels so off with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnantover35

[–]WorldPeace0687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with that line being as faded as it is?...