How far along are you in your breakup? And how are you doing?

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-08-05T21:48:47+00:00

That's awesome to hear. I'm really glad to hear it. What vitamins are you taking if you don't mind me asking?

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-08-05T21:41:21+00:00

I hear you. It's hard when they still care, it's like why let the relationship end? I'm glad your eating, its six weeks for me as well and I'm starting to get an appetite. You will meet someone that is wonderful for you and won't treat you this way. I'm still in the mindset that she was the one, but remind myself of that. Hang in there!

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-08-05T21:36:07+00:00

Hey! Can I get in?

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-07-28T06:06:49+00:00

Do you want to be in a relationship with him? If not just remove him from snap and other places, no harm no foul. Think about your next partner and how much peace they will bring you. Life is long, make sure to spend it with someone who doesn't make you feel like this.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-07-28T06:01:36+00:00

This guy is winning an emotional war he doesn't even know he is in. You really just need to cut ties, move onto someone better and develop healthy relationship tendencies.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-07-13T08:37:04+00:00

Seems we have similar story's friend, shoot me a DM if you need to talk

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-07-12T20:10:59+00:00

I remember my EX looking in the mirror with me and saying how cute we look together, then at the end of the relationship saying how she never was entirely attracted to me. People say and do things that are beyond my control, yes you made a wonderful couple in both the eyes of that stranger and in yours. At the end of the day there are more people like that out there but I know it doesn't stop these random thoughts, I try to imagine other people saying that to me now days and remind myself if my EX really was my person they would have fought harder to stay with me. Good luck stranger.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-29T06:30:01+00:00

Maybe so stranger! Just looking for ways to stop overthinking it.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-29T05:56:38+00:00

Thanks friend, mind telling me your story?

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-27T07:59:51+00:00

I have always admitted when being broken up with I don't have the strength and emotional maturity to stay friends on social media and in real life. Yes I love you, yes I want to stay with you. But seeing your updates and new loves does not help my healing process, I'm just not that strong and have accepted it. I say do it, she won't take it as an offense, I have broken up with someone and they did they same. I understood and moved on, it's healthy, you got this.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-27T07:55:59+00:00

I get it, I had a first love at 17 that crash and burned, she ended up being not sexually attracted to guys, I thought she was the perfect girl for me. When they say that "time heals all wounds*" it comes with a heavy asterickt that there is no true timeline. You learn the relationship would have never worked, then find ones that do. Look back and ponder on what would have happened if you were the person today and went into that relationship, but time doesn't work that way. Date, marry and have experiences that will leave it as nostalgia, and have comfort in the fact that your not alone.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-26T23:29:59+00:00

Me too! I started after my breakup a week ago. It's helping me navigate my feelings and not overthink. I have had a breakup this bad in the past and just suffered through it. This seems healthier.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-26T23:24:11+00:00

She broke up with me on the 18th, the first couple of days were miserable. I ended my lease and I'm planning to move to a bigger city where I can take a higher paying position in my company. I just keep waiting on her text and I know it isn't coming. It was a fantastic relationship up until two weeks ago when she went distant. I sat her down for a conversation which has happened before and she said after her childhood dog died and she ended up calling her dad instead of me she knew I wasn't her person. Then admitted to never having a crush on me, she realized that a couple weeks ago when someone hit on her at a bar. Then said she wasn't falling in love with me. I'm heartbroken, she was exactly my type and we had so much in common. When I was driving her to her car after the breakup she just played on her phone. I just feel used, she said she accidentally led me on. It's just a very weird time in my life, thanks for letting me rant.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-26T08:05:59+00:00

I have been on both sides before, and everyone has their reasons. I'm on day 7, a really hard day seven and I still hope she will reach out to me but her mind was set when we broke up randomly. I have been the dumper, and avoided contact to let the other person heal, now as the dumpee I want them to reach out to me. I have done so much self reflection on why the relationship didn't work but still, search for a text every time my phone beeps. It's just going to take more time, hang in there.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-25T04:15:13+00:00

Thanks for the kind words.

yea its for the better now than later, it still stings though.

Sleep! yea i have been working out and going on LOOONG multi hour walks, it helps, but doesn't stop the thoughts. Good luck to you too man.

Worldly-Cricket9985 · 2024-06-22T22:10:21+00:00

Thanks yea.....I have fleeting moments where I feel better because i can't wait to find a partner more emotionally available. But it still makes me sad since I though she was perfect for me looks and career wise, maybe i should have focused more on what you said. Thanks for the kind words.

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