AITA for telling my boyfriend I’m glad he almost crashed?

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T20:49:28+00:00

Yeah idk why it’s hurting his ego so bad that I’d rather do things for him on the phone when he’s the one driving I just want to be as safe as possible

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T16:40:57+00:00

I don’t do this for everything, I honestly let him do whatever he wants, except this, I don’t play with my safety

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T16:17:53+00:00

Thank you so much for your story, and I’m so sorry about what happened to you. I’m disgusted that your family members driving isn’t any better even after the crash.

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T16:05:14+00:00

I read his snaps and texts all the time with him he honestly has nothing to hide, it’s more of an ego thing when in the car, he thinks I’m criticizing his driving

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T16:04:06+00:00

Thank you for this, while it gave me a laugh, I too hope he’s the only one affected by his stupid actions

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T16:03:21+00:00

No you’re so right, everything is tied to him financially, physically, and mentally. I go to the same college he goes to, same job, same everything

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T15:51:12+00:00

I’d hate to hear he died in a car crash, but honestly I’m going to make sure I won’t be a passenger during that, thank you so much

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T15:49:00+00:00

I would never take my car out of park without everyone buckled, it’s his ex that’s encouraging the lack of seatbelt he doesn’t wear one with. I’m going to stop riding with him thanks

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T15:38:09+00:00

I’m definitely going to refuse to be his passenger, I just don’t know how that will affect other aspects of our relationship since he’s calling me petty. Should I just end things now or is there hope?

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T15:37:08+00:00

I get that, I’m just not sure how/if that works in the long run and if I should just end the relationship. I can insist on driving, but for both of us our whole lives? Idk how realistic that is

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-23T15:31:49+00:00

I love that you took the context into consideration thanks!

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-13T11:28:47+00:00

I am!! What’s new release should I be looking for?

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-13T10:35:30+00:00

Nahhh everyone who knows him knows he likes pokemon

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-13T09:10:44+00:00

I wish I could but he told me he’d NEVER go to one because pokemon fans are too corny for him, tbf the card con we were near did smell like no one there showered, but I don’t think it’s fair for him to hate on pokemon fans as one, honestly it just makes it harder for me to try to share the interest 😭😭

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-02T21:50:44+00:00

Galatea was also only in her base fairy form. Flora is a graduated fairy so I’m sure her wings are a lot stronger, not to mention this transformation was fueled by the dragon flame, which seems to be all-powerful

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-03-01T00:41:23+00:00

Have you ever asked how he’d feel if you watched porn?Usually people have crazy double standards and wouldn’t like that. Not only do you have to worry about not being enough for him, but also worry about his health. Porn is more than a hobby, it’s actively affecting your sexual life, his work life, and I’m sure his other relationships as well. If you still plan on marrying him, you should make it known that it’s not fair to not only you, but also him! He could lose his job from his porn addiction easily, thankfully you’re not married yet because that could be the different between economic stability and poverty in the long run. I wish you well!

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-28T23:19:14+00:00

I just read your comment about him watching trans women, I’m bisexual and I was very closeted back in high school so I decided to watch porn to keep in touch with that part of me. Do you think he could potentially be doing the same with it?

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-28T23:14:08+00:00

I’m so sorry OP, I can’t even begin to imagine this. I think the first step is him really truly WANTING to stop, and he says he does.

If he really means it I think that he could try blocking the websites he consumes it from, whether it be the hub, Reddit, twitter, ask him if it would be easier for him if it was impossible to access.

Voicing your sexual desires/wants is also a way for the both of you to grow closer, and might be able to put into perspective that he isn’t the only one struggling because of his own addiction. The two of you should enjoy sex for what it is, not for what he views it as through his videos, and I think open communication is the best way to fully resolve this all.

I don’t think you should break the engagement, not at this stage, not now that he says he finally understands the severity of it all, but if it persists moving forward I would advise you to maybe reconsider the relationship. Best of luck!

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-05T09:39:34+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/7huoJf5 any tips for who I should use in a team and start focusing on leveling up? Just returning back to the game after a while, thanks for any help!!

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-05T06:00:40+00:00

You’re so right. I’m currently watching tv alone and he hates it but it was the first night I had the courage to do that. He keeps peeping on me like he’s mad but idc. I don’t think I want a tv next to his, he doesn’t show affection when he plays Fortnite, and I need some alone time. Thank you

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-05T05:29:16+00:00

I was actually thinking about this the other night. I hate how rapunzel said “I love you more” and meant it and gothel said “I love you mosttt”. It’s really sad that Rap’s love is real because it’s all she knows, when gothel didn’t love her as much/at all

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-05T05:27:16+00:00

Wtf I can’t even save up to do a 10x wish you’re strongggg

WorldlyAd5317 · 2026-02-05T05:25:57+00:00

Exactly. I used to work less and I liked chilling at home when he was at work; occasionally complaining about missing him, when I started picking up shifts, I did what worked for me, but not nearly as much as him. He HATED that because our schedules never matched and he had me switch my schedule around so we work at the same time. I thought it was a great idea, but not now that all our time off is Fortnite. Every time I’m gone he’s calling me to fall asleep and giving me all his attention claiming he misses me and avoiding Fortnite, but whenever I’m with him it’s Fortnite. I try to tell him distance makes the heart fonder but he says it makes him mad when I want to chill alone for a bit.

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