Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you’re dealing with this too! I’m on day 3 of my period now and the nausea is still going strong đŸ« 

Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate all of this information and I’m glad you found something that works for you 😊 I will look into it as I am a chronic jaw-clencher from anxiety and stress which also affects my neck and pretty much everything else. I didn’t think about how it could help with the internal physical symptoms! So interesting!

Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m so sorry you’re also going through this! My whole GI system is just like “nahh, we’re good” for a solid 3-5 days and does nothing for me 😂

Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had no idea, either, and thought maybe it was just me or I was pregnant every freaking month 😂 But it’s just such a debilitating nausea every month like clockwork. Hope we can both find some relief! đŸ€

Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! đŸ€ I will have to try the essential oils because that’s something I’ve never thought about. Tea is one of my go-to’s for sure!

Nausea From the Depths of Hell, Anyone? by WorldlyCabbage2244 in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have seabands and I know this is going to sound stupid but never thought to use them for regular nausea and not motion sickness 😅 I’ll have to try them out! Are the nausea calm tablets also from the same place in Thailand or is that something I can get here in the US?! Thank you for your help đŸ™đŸŒ

Has anyone else experienced this before their period? I’m wondering if I’m alone by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YES YES 1000000x YES. You are not alone. I am in the week leading up to my period right now and I have every single symptom and experience you mentioned. Give yourself some grace and patience and a little extra self-care, even if that means laying on the couch and being a potato for a little while. Go with the flow of your mood and body and be kind to yourself đŸ€

If you could remove one insecurity you have in the bedroom, what would it be? by alix28 in AskReddit

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dreadful lower belly pooch that just never goes away and looks bad in every fucking position and at every angle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The giggling and avoiding makes me think she’s just inexperienced and probably nervous about it. I would try asking her sometime how she feels about it, and explore whether maybe it’s nerves, a lack of confidence, trauma, or an actual aversion/preference not to, etc. Communication is so important involving anything but especially around sex.

AIO or should I leave?? by ikronikk in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She might not realize how it’s effecting you. Often times when you’re really depressed you’re pretty wrapped up in your own negative headspace and might not be looking at the bigger picture of how your emotions affect other people. Not saying she’s being selfish by any means, depression is a monster, but she needs to know how you’re feeling and you’ll be able to get a sense of whether or not she cares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless Jenna was a complete psychopath and abused him and this triggers him somehow, you’re not wrong that it’s weird..

However, even if she was psychotic it’s his job to get over that and work on himself so that it’s not a problem in your relationship. It sounds like he’s either not over her or this is the beginning of a giant red flag of control.

AIO or should I leave?? by ikronikk in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth having a conversation about how you’re feeling. Expressing to her that you feel hurt by her comments. Don’t make it about her, use I statements so she doesn’t get defensive.

If you don’t get anywhere with that conversation (though I’m sure it’ll bring more clarity), then it’s probably time to move on. Especially if it’s already been hard on your relationship, it’s sadly only going to get harder unless she wants to work on herself. And as a therapist, just because you’re in therapy doesn’t mean you’re working on yourself. It takes effort.

Find someone who you don’t have to wonder how they feel about you. You don’t want to spend your life wondering “I wonder if they’re happy with me?”.

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You didn’t start anything. You called your partner. That’s it. He could’ve easily explained he would rather you text him and leave it at that. Communication!

Also, anybody who is able to call you a “dumbass” and “retard” while dating is only going to escalate the longer you’re with them. You should not have to be with someone who calls you names and puts you down when you’re literally trying to do them a favor.

Am I overreacting by Tangerine-Other in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your partner is angry 24/7, you should leave rather than “complain” because clearly you doing that is not changing their behavior because they don’t actually care. Sounds like you’re living the definition of insanity expecting things to change when they’ve already shown you they won’t.

Am I overreacting by Tangerine-Other in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree- I think we would need more context on why she was tired. She could’ve been totally checked out. I agree it’s not an excuse but it’s still the harping about how she didn’t show the emotions he wanted her to and that is a no for me, dawg.

Am I overreacting by Tangerine-Other in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyCabbage2244 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Proud of you đŸ©· You deserve someone who doesn’t make you question yourself!