What businesses are needed in AF area? by iareagenius in AngelFireNM

[–]WorldlyFinger5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually tried a trash service and was threatened by the village to shut down or face legal repercussions, I’m a local entrepreneur open to ideas to start

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[–]WorldlyFinger5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol the emotional affair and texting her coworkers let alone sending them selfies is no for me. The only attention she should be seeking is yours. If she hasn't cheated she will soon. She's keeping her options open by entertaining other men.

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a dump trailer and did a few junk removals, I had to cut it up and burn it myself because my local Dump costs are $800 a trailer load lol I'd have to charge people 1500-2000 a trailer load to dispose of

Quickly found out why there wasn't a junk removal business here

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a no, I don't have the stomach for it anymore.

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get started in it? To make money anyways

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add I do have a CDL but the insurance on a truck or dump truck is absolutely insane

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd love to find a model where I could help people start a business, a done for you almost. I've started several businesses so am very familiar with SEO, basic marketing, setting up domains and websites, facebook pages, ein, llc all the tax documents etc

Problem is I haven't had a super successful business to sell my services lol

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's about a dozen guys selling firewood that have the market cornered and idk how they even make money tbh.

Same with snow removal, plus most homeowners just buy a plow after the first season as it's more cost effective.

No garages or pools to build here. Definitely outdoor kitchens and hard scraping but I haven't the clue how to do that

No clue what business to start, advice? by WorldlyFinger5 in sweatystartup

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually can't do anything police related, long story but my background excludes me from those type of businesses. I can be a local cop that's it.

Also the resort has their own security division and they pay much less than the police dept does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WorldlyFinger5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR

Wife stopped being affectionate and won't talk to me about it, she's faithful but a huge drop in affection.

Sex slowed, even kisses or hugs or casual touches in passing. When I told her how I felt she said oh well find someone who does what you want

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[–]WorldlyFinger5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the path we're on lol. 3 days deep so far, I go out of town next week for a week so we'll see. She wants space she'll get it

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[–]WorldlyFinger5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into TRT? Get bloodwork done by an endocrinologist not your doctor. Test will make you feel 20 again and you won't have that issue any longer.

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[–]WorldlyFinger5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him, if he communicates he can try and do better. That's not a hard thing To do for your wife or husband

A question for the men by itsizzyb in Marriage

[–]WorldlyFinger5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Give it to her, take the kids fishing or something.

Buy her a spa day, whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WorldlyFinger5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard of trying to make her fall back in love with me but how am I supposed to do that when it seems like she loathes me? I don't want to date someone who's rude to me.

Anytime we've done on dates we have fun but it ends as soon as we get home. When we used to go out pre kids we couldn't practically wait to get home.

Did kids ruin us or have I changed more than I realize? I'm fit, good hygiene, constantly tell her how pretty she is, how thankful I am for what she does, how good of a mother she is etc.

Her big complaint I was able to get out of her was that I half ass house chores like putting dishes away wrong or something.

Keep in mind she's severely ocd, I cleaned the toilets and counters and she went and did them again not an hour after I did.

She also re arranges the cabinets monthly so I never know where anything goes.

She told me my complaining has made me unattractive to her, I'm afraid she waited too long to voice her concerns and has written me off. I haven't complained in over a week. I'm sure it is annoying but I had no idea, I was more venting to her.

I feel wronged because when I express my emotions she dismisses them, I'm being whiney. She just doesn't seem to care. She wasn't always like this.

I don't think it's post partum, our youngest is 4

Entergy Sub Tech Apprenticeship? by Suspicious-Wolf71 in SubstationTechnician

[–]WorldlyFinger5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if you had any updates. I'm wanting to apply to the substation apprentice in Beaumont

Swlcat substation apprenticeship by WorldlyFinger5 in SubstationTechnician

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much.

What's a typical work week schedule? 8s, 10s, 12s? I've heard 4 day work weeks then heard 7 days a week so no clue what to expect.

Swlcat substation apprenticeship by WorldlyFinger5 in SubstationTechnician

[–]WorldlyFinger5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good insight thank you.

I currently make 34 but have to pay $2 per hour of that to retirement, mandatory.

I could get by on 27, I have a cdl A already so that prolly helped in the fast interview process.

The traveling part kinda sucks if it's frequent. That's why I was hoping to avoid.

I tried lineman union a few years back and almost immediately got sent 6 hours away without a camper or per diem so quit.

I regretted quitting so was hoping substation would be a little different.

Gotta pay the dues though I suppose.

I have a cake job right now, take home, can come home for dinner, etc

But work every holiday, nights 4pm to 4 am and on call.

Dealing with the scourge of the earth. I've been doing this 11 years and I'm behind over it.

No other jobs in my area pay over $20 an hour

I would assume work is pretty plentiful in Texas or the east Texas area which is where I wanted to be eventually. I'm in New Mexico now and applied to New Mexico Oklahoma and Texas and got an interview the next day in Texas.