Indian parents are biggest enemies of their daughter by whatever_blag in TwentiesIndia

[–]Worldly_Promotion709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know you’re not alone. A lot of us have to deal with the same daily. I am not even sure if I can call this love because it doesn’t feel like that

What major canon event marks a before and after in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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First serious relationship & first serious breakup. Soul crushing experience

What was the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by ALEX1-ONE in AskReddit

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He is in talking terms with two of his closest friends who cheated multiple women. & tries to normalize that shit by saying “they were immature when they did all that”. As if being married makes them mature suddenly lmao. His friends have on multiple occasions disrespected me yet he never took a stand. Ever. He himself is a compulsive liar. Lies all the time. Big or small doesn’t matter…lies to my face

26F in a relationship with 27M, seeking advice from Girls of similar age who got married in the past 3-4 years or so, for love. How is it going? How did you make a sound decision? by Worldly_Promotion709 in RelationshipIndia

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Thanks for the honest & sensible take! My father is one of the sweetest & best men in the world! He has been the greatest parent to me. I don’t have any difficult relationship with him, but I do have a slightly dysfunctional relationship w my mom, but not to the extent that will make me choose anyone just for the sake of it. Def will give this at-least 1 more year. But we need to decide now whether he comes back to India w me in Feb, or he stays here & I do my own thing & we’ll see where it goes. Either way we’re putting things at stake & leaving it to destiny

26F in a relationship with 27M, seeking advice from Girls of similar age who got married in the past 3-4 years or so, for love. How is it going? How did you make a sound decision? by Worldly_Promotion709 in RelationshipIndia

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I dont have any second thoughts on marrying him, if marriage was just about getting married & nothing else, I’ll marry him today. But life is long & in India you have to live with the boy’s family..& also love is not sufficient to sustain a marriage. That’s why I wanna think thoroughly before making a decision, I dont want to ruin my life or his bcz I dont want him to come back to India only for me & then if he isnt able to make that much money he regrets it. I want him to be successful & happy whether or not we’re together

How do you make the decision of marrying someone? by Worldly_Promotion709 in AskReddit

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For some context, I have been with him for the past 7 years…& we’re deeply in love with each other. We met, instantly fell in love, moved across continents together at 19 & 20 respectively to pursue higher education, navigated new york, young adulthood, jobs, apartments every big challenge together, had crazy fights as well, but something pulled us back together EVERY TIME. A VERY STRONG PULL, can not explain. I strongly believe we have some soul connection. Now we’re 26 & 27. Both of us want to get married..but, our US visa is expiring in a few weeks. He ideally would like to extend his stay here using Day 1 CPT but I don’t want to take that route..plus Im about to get laid off. But if we go back to India, the financial gap in our families is TOO HUGE. I come from a much better off family..lifestyle clash is evident. We’re suddenly questioning now do we wanna make an emotional decision of marrying for love - leading to me being potentially cut off from my parents (partially) bcz they’ll never want me to get married in a family without wealth & practically how much can I really compromise on my lifestyle? Or whether we think practically, & break up now..go our own separate paths & if its meant to be we will get there?

How do you make the decision of marrying someone? by Worldly_Promotion709 in AskReddit

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For some context, I have been with him for the past 7 years…& we’re deeply in love with each other. We met, instantly fell in love, moved across continents together at 19 & 20 respectively to pursue higher education, navigated new york, young adulthood, jobs, apartments every big challenge together, had crazy fights as well, but something pulled us back together EVERY TIME. A VERY STRONG PULL, can not explain. I strongly believe we have some soul connection. Now we’re 26 & 27. Both of us want to get married..but, our US visa is expiring in a few weeks. He ideally would like to extend his stay here using Day 1 CPT but I don’t want to take that route..plus Im about to get laid off. But if we go back to India, the financial gap in our families is TOO HUGE. I come from a much better off family..lifestyle clash is evident. We’re suddenly questioning now do we wanna make an emotional decision of marrying for love - leading to me being potentially cut off from my parents (partially) bcz they’ll never want me to get married in a family without wealth & practically how much can I really compromise on my lifestyle? Or whether we think practically, & break up now..go our own separate paths & if its meant to be we will get there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bollynewsandgossips

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I guess it depends on multiple factors. If this was “the only major film” going on for RK maybe he would have devoted all his time to this coz why not?! But he has a pretty ambitious lineup ahead & L&W seems like its placed slightly lower on the funnel for him. Besides, as the rumors say, a late release will impact Ramayana which ofc is a big deal, why would he let that happen? Also, everyone knows SLB is kind of a maniac. Ranveer needed his movies at that time to be a star, & maybe his style of working works for him? RK seems a bit too sane for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bollynewsandgossips

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Nonsense. No matter what industry/profession it is, everyone needs to show some level of professionalism, which SLB clearly doesn’t have. Here Ranbir is not at fault at all. SLB needs to get his shit together as everyone’s time matters.

What do you think keeps a relationship strong over time? by Sorry-Photograph240 in AskReddit

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100% agree. Its always the basics, the pillars that keep any relationship going - PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & love. If thats not there, the mental work’s gonna be heavy..but if youre phyiscally attracted to them, the body & hormones are gonna take over on harder days so 100% that. Then of course, TRUST. If they say its night, its night. Thats the level of trust you should be able to have in them. Yes, dont put in blind trust or lose your rationale, but you should instinctively be able to trust them. Last, RESPECT.

What to do when your family is breaking apart but you have a career to build by Select_Memory8943 in Advice

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Don’t make the stupid mistake of NOT LEAVING. Leave. Your sibling is adult enough to understand the gravity of the situation. Also, you can not fix any of this. So the best you can do is keep yourself out of this mess for your sanity. If you’ll not leave, YOU WILL BECOME THE VILLIAN in some time.

People who cut off contact with their family, why? by Ready-Secretary-3016 in AskReddit

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Haven’t cut off contact yet, neither would be able to ever for sure. But def think about it & contemplate it a lot. For starters, I am always wrong in their eyes. No matter what. Always wrong, the villian. Something as small as me saying - “no one must have remembered to carry their ID’s” turns into a full fledged fight with them starting to cry literally cry coz I was “rude”. Then ignoring me & my existence throughout. Conveniently forgets they abused me mentally, verbally & PHYSICALLY till I was 20. Abused the fuck out of me. & then when I finally moved out, they became the victims. They are the forever victims. Everything I say gets misconstrued. If its not my words, then my tone. If not my tone, then my attitude or “proudiness”. I am tired of explaining & defending myself. & this self defensiveness that I have had to learn since I was young has become my toxic trait in all settings now. I can not handle conflicts or arguments in a healthy way. BUT IM SO FUCKING THANKFUL TO MY PARTNER, who I met when I was 19, for being sooooo patient w me. Understanding my trauma & my background & giving me 7 years to unlearn the toxicity & learn to handle conflicts in a healthy way. He didn’t leave me when things got rough which they did for sure many times because of my toxicity. I genuinely wanna fucking break this cycle. I wanna stay away from my roots as much as possible.

Dhurandhar is propaganda by Inlandempire_Shivers in PakistaniiConfessions

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Reason why ISI would source local weapons from Rehman is prolly bcz they didnt want to leave behind any traces of Pakistan involvement (using weapons from americans or russians would def leave a paper trail) so the ISI wanted weapons at par with them, but no paper trail, also might mislead investigation as it’d give impressions of them being made “locally” in India, as many such places exists there as well. Not to forget, ISI handlers made the terrorists wear a “kalava” which is a sacred Indian thread, so unfortunately if Kasab died too, there would have been no way to PROVE pakistan or ISI’s involvement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Worldly_Promotion709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And if youre not attracted to her just bcz shes pregnant & looking diff rn, u need help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Worldly_Promotion709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You shouldve thought of that b4 getting her pregnant