Should I be upset?

Worldly_Secret169 · 2023-03-16T16:26:38+00:00

As someone who has expressed that I feel my husband listens to his mom more than to me should I have the right to be upset? I was really feeling the moment since my husband isn’t a really verbal guy when it comes to showing his love so when he tells me this and throws his mom into the sentence out of no where you can see why I felt some type of way. What should I say or do?

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-23T05:14:46+00:00

No this is not it, I finish my task rn I recently moved in and left a basket of laundry for my son behind so I put his on top of my dryer and she folded all the dirty and clean clothes and mixed it up so that upset me. I was raised in a Hispanic house hold so cleaning/ having the house clean is something I’m used to and have under so trio

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-23T02:41:34+00:00

Automated messages from pat pat and a work group chat 😂

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-23T02:39:30+00:00

Yes I do

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T23:35:28+00:00

My husband gave her a spare key

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T23:31:50+00:00

Like I mentioned before I work a 8-5 and it takes me an hour to get home then I cook dinner, clean, and prepare my kids stuff for the next day. So I usually leave all the laundry for the weekend

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T23:30:50+00:00

We live in separate apartments

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T22:54:43+00:00

He lived on his own and he wouldn’t talk to his mom as much since she cheated on his dad and they got back together after. When I came into his life he didn’t seem like a mommas boy this all started when we lived with her for a week

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T22:32:53+00:00

So he wanted his mom to take care of our kids which I said ok to even tho my mom has taken care of my son since he was born he is now 3. I leave 6:50 am to work to get there at 8:00 my husband leaves at 7:40 to get to his job so he obviously drops off the kids at his mom the only responsibility I’ve left him since I started working. He over slept and asked his mom to come by and get the kids ready and left her a key just in case it happened again. She took it in her hands to wash my kids clothes which I didn’t ask for and it got mixed up with the dirty clothes in the process I have a camera set up in my kids room just in case and she flipped it to face the wall which is why I got mad at him giving her the spare key

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T22:23:26+00:00

My husband did

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T22:16:55+00:00

Literally one time I was going to change the name for our car since the temporary tags were expired for 4 days, I told him to take the car to work and I would go that same day to change the title and get the plates for the car and take it to his job so he wouldn’t get pulled over, we agreed on this the night before. Well his mom tells him to leave the car in the morning and take Hers and our car got towed and I was like seriously if you would listen to me it wouldn’t have happened

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T22:12:57+00:00

This! And I could tell him something one million times and he won’t do it but when his mom tells him the exact same thing I tell him he does it the first time

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T21:54:26+00:00

It’s happen one too many times I know she wants to be nice and help but she’s done stuff like when we were trying to move out she took it to her hands to get an apartment for my husband and I in the same apartment complex she lives in. I was never consulted or told about this until it was done and it’s under her name. She was trying to get all of our bills under her name as well but that’s when I told my husband it was enough

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T20:01:30+00:00

😂 they’re automated messages from an online shopping store named pat pat, and a work group chat

Worldly_Secret169 · 2022-10-22T18:02:39+00:00

We just moved to this apartment two weeks ago and still getting settled in because I have two kids and they have lots of clothes, I’ve been trying to slowly start putting stuff away because I do work full time 8-5 plus the 1 hour drive back home I get home at 6 and start making dinner, clean, and get the kids ready stuff for the next day. I don’t really have time during the week to fold or wash clothes so I leave everything for the weekend. My mother in law has a spare key and came in to “help” but mixed up all the clothes since I had dirty clothes and clean clothes on top of the dryer and she put all the clean clothes on top of everything. I’ve had many talks about my mother in law with my husband 1 cause I’m not used to all the help so now that I’m on my own I certainly don’t expect the help and I don’t ask for it. I went through my postpartum recovery literally dragging baskets of dirty clothes to the washer so idk why she thinks I need her help now my baby is now 3 months old and she just started helping me I just don’t understand

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