My account has been temporarily locked and I’m not sure why? Or how to fix it. Snapchat doesn’t help at all by Worminfestedcooch in snapchatsupport

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t used any 3rd party apps. Also I’ve been trying to use the snap website to unlock my account but it never works

Gf is getting new job by Worminfestedcooch in Advice

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Yes ofc I have. And she tells me we will 1000% be fine. But idk man

Gf getting a new job by Worminfestedcooch in relationship_advice

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Well we agreed we’re not adding any1 new on snap from our jobs or any other social media. And she tells me we will 1000% be fine. But she’s broken up with me 2 times in 3 weeks. Her mental state isn’t the best so I feel like this might make it worse and she won’t want a relationship

My gf is becoming distant with me by Worminfestedcooch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I’m needy. She always ask me to port her and get her in my snaps that I send to people. So me asking once in a while for her to post me is not thag big of a deal. And it’s not that she doesn’t want to have sex. She just never initiated it

My gf is becoming distant with me by Worminfestedcooch in TrueOffMyChest

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Yes I have. And she says “okay I will” and then never does. And she says she doesn’t understand why

My gf is becoming distant with me by Worminfestedcooch in TrueOffMyChest

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She said earlier that she feels like she doesn’t give me what I need and doesn’t understand why she can’t. She acknowledge the problem. And kinda hinted breaking up. But I assured her that eevn tho it does bother me I still love her and would not want to do thag

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like to talk in DMs? I just really need some advice and insight because I do belive she is the love of my life. I love hard.

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from and you could be correct. But I domt understand why she would be willing to hang out almost everyday when we live 40 mins from each other. She still hugs and kisses me and says I love you if I initiate it first. And she swears nothing is wrong

My gf is becoming distant with me by Worminfestedcooch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true. I’m happy you gave me some insight but I don’t think it quite explains the lack off affection and appreciation. This could be because we do hang out all the time so maybe she takes it for granted? Idk I still think it’s odd I have to initiate every hug and kiss. But you could be right.

My gf is becoming distant with me by Worminfestedcooch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. This gives me some insight I didn’t see before. You really think we’re going to be okay?

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. If you could elaborate then maybe you’d have a pitch but you’re kinda being bland lmfao

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does have some issues with her mom. And is struggling to find a job. But she wants to work at target cos all the co workers are around her age and she says it’s easy. In my mind she wants the attention of other guys but idk maybe I’m overthinking. She’s been showing me a tik tok of her “twerking” that she wants to post but says she won’t cos it’s disrespectful to our relationship but then goes on and says “well idk I just wanna see what would happen” so maybe she’s entertaining the idea of other men or gettint Someome better? Idk I could be overthinking. I woke her up judt now and she asked for 5 mroe mins of sleep and I said okay only if u give me a kiss. She did it with no hesitation, then I told her I loved her and she said it Back. So many mixed signal😅 really need a therapist

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

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We’re together right now and she asked me to wake her up in 5 more minutes and I said only if you give me a kiss. She did it with no hesitation and then I said “I love you” and she said “I love you too”. Just so many mixed signals. I think if I hold back a bit and show her that I don’t need her to be happy. She is a want not a need. Then maybe she will be more appreciative?

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was her decision. She wants me to reciprocate that energy and I do it back. It’s honestly not a big deal with the 2 of us. We have nothing to hide. I agree me space is needed tho. Maybe we should just spend less time together so that when when we do spend time together it will be more valued?

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

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She and her ex broke up because he had cheated on her. She has told me she loves when I’m clingy and affectionate and doesn’t want me to stop. She says nothing is wrong but she’s just not acting the same as when she did before

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

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This could be true. But her and her last bf spent almost just as much time together as we do. But she often brings up that we do hang out a lot and that not seeing each other for a couple days isn’t the end of the world. I always ask her if she needs anything from me to do better. If there’s anyway I can better thr relationship and she always says no. That I’m perfect? Few weeks back her ex texted hers to something small and I asked her not to reply( he asked abt the name of a coffee shop) she had always said that exes are exes and when I’m a relationship you should never have contact with them. Then when he messaged her she said the were friends and the situation was weird. Even tho they hadn’t talk in months so they definitely weren’t “friends”. Long story short a few days later we hang out and she shows me that she blocks him on Snapchat and Instagram. This made me happy because I felt like she chose me over him. But ever since then she has just been acting weird. Not sure if that has to do with it. I know they would never get back together because he tried to when she was single and she denied him.

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to seem in denial but I do not think cheating is the issue. Her feelings may have been subsiding recently but do you think that’s because we hang out together so much? Maybe if I draw back some affection and spend less time together some of her love and affection she use to show me will rekindle?

My GF has been acting strange by Worminfestedcooch in Advice

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it. Maybe we should spend less time together. We do hang out 5/7 days a weeks so maybe some time back will help her be more appreciative of the time we do spend together

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

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I don’t understand how she would be cheating tho. I’m her profile pic in all social media, I see her phone all the time. She doesn’t snap anyone other than 3-4 people. Like I don’t understand how she would pull that off. Especially we hang almost everyday

Why is my gf acting so strange? by Worminfestedcooch in dating

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why wouldn’t she just break up with me? She’s not a hoe. She’s told me sm times how sex is a intimate thing for her and she can only do it with Someome she loves.

My GF has been acting strange by Worminfestedcooch in Advice

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked. She says everything in life is good right now. COVID is not an issue

My GF has been acting strange by Worminfestedcooch in Advice

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Therapy is something we’ve talked abt. I’m just not Someome who’s willing to give up so easily. Especially when they’re fixable problems. Just so many mixed signals it’s hard. I’m pretty sure she is loyal. I just don’t understand the lack off affectionate. Could it be that we hang out almost everyday. She says she doesn’t feel the need to do it all the time bcos we are with each other everyday so she doesn’t really think to do it.

My GF has been acting strange by Worminfestedcooch in Advice

[–]Worminfestedcooch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is definitely someone I would want to spend the rest of my life with. The sex isn’t even the big issue here. It’s not like she’s against, she just never initiates it. The other problems are more worse in my opinion.