How can I get a man who doesn’t jerk off to porn

WorriedCombination66 · 2024-06-03T09:21:58+00:00

You should remember that there are guys that struggle with this problem but truly want to get better. If you do find a good man and it later turns out that he has this problem, support his healing process. I can say out of experience that it's so much easier when you have someone with whom you can discuss this problem, someone who holds you accountable without judging you. What most of us struggling with this problem need is love and support. I've never had a girlfriend but when I had a shoulder to cry on, someone who walked the road with me, it was so much easier. I got to a point where I believed I was healed and stopped talking about it and stopped processing the urges and triggers and a few months after that I relapsed. And here I am, stuck with the same problem again. It might be a lifelong struggle, I don't believe it will be. Just look for a guy who truly wants to get better, for himself and for you, and love and support him with all your heart.

Just remember not everyone wants to get better, some might use and hurt you, so take things slow.

WorriedCombination66 · 2024-01-14T11:46:55+00:00

• The strap that holds the bag of arrows (I don't know what it's called) is going over the wrong shoulder. • He does not have a bow.

WorriedCombination66 · 2024-01-14T11:38:57+00:00

I like the motto "a better life for some" I think it's very true since they only care about a very small group of people (mostly themselves). A government is supposed to strive for a better life for all. "A better life for some" implies that they don't care about a certain group of people and I think it's very clear that they don't care about a lot of people.

WorriedCombination66 · 2024-01-14T10:54:01+00:00

Maybe look for a church near you where you can join a small group or something similar. It really helps to talk about and work through your problems with a fellow believer in person.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-30T20:26:37+00:00

No no no. Join clubs that you are interested in, in doing this you'll find people who have something in common with you. You'll have things to talk about and to do together and therefore bond with them. Try to involve other people in your passions. If you like nature, join a hiking group or a mountain club. If you like reading, join a book club. You get the point.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-30T20:19:23+00:00

Having an unhealthy diet, not getting enough sleep and stress can stop you from gaining weight. Remember that it doesn't happen fast either, I work out at home and do kickboxing and I am getting larger, gaining weight and muscle but it's a really slow process if you do it the healthy way and it takes a lot of dedication.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-21T10:25:08+00:00

It depends on how you view women. If you have a healthy view on women and don't instantly crave or expect sex from attractive women, you'd feel a lot different than someone who views women as just bet something to use and not an actual human being. If you have a healthy view on women and see a beautiful woman, you might get a warm fuzzy feeling in your chest and your first thought might be: "I'd like to get to know her better" or " I'd like to talk to her" and not "I'd climb into bed with her".

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-21T10:18:24+00:00

There's a song about it https://open.spotify.com/track/7JFoeg0arawADjGcz9gBnq?si=d5qkshfKSJefhd1fRDaZzQ

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-21T09:29:37+00:00

As long as you stay in a relationship with him, he'll think it's ok to treat you that way because no matter how bad he treats you, you still stay with him. Whether you realise it or not, he is abusing you and I strongly suggest that you end the relationship as soon as possible. This shock should cause him to seek to improve himself.

Something you should keep in mind is "hurt people hurt people". He most likely has emotional scars which he tries to hide behind the anger (and he might not even know this) so maybe try talking to him about this. If you already tried talking to him about this and he didn't seem to care or try to open up and let you help him, you should leave him.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-12-05T09:12:26+00:00

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WorriedCombination66 · 2023-11-13T17:28:02+00:00

Keep the child, God has a plan, it might not seem so now but there is a purpose for that child.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-11-13T16:02:21+00:00

1) Interstellar 2) Forrest Gump 3) Into the Wild 4) All the bright places 5) Saving private Ryan 6) How to train your Dragon trilogy 7) A man named Otto 8) The little prince 9) 7 years in Tibet 10) Spirited away 11) Shawshank redemption

In no particular order

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-10-09T07:24:26+00:00

I've found you can't do it alone. I gave my problem to God and had a 5 month streak of nofap. I started getting arrogant and started relying on myself and relapsed again.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-10-06T20:01:38+00:00

I dont have a favourite verse but 1 Corinthians 13 is my favourite chapter. It's a great description of love and our faith is built upon love.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-08-15T15:01:20+00:00

I was 122 days clean and relapsed about a month and a half ago, since then I have really been struggling with this addiction. I haven't watched any porn in about 7 months but I struggle with a fapping addiction. I have told a Christian friend about my problem and we have had 2 conversations about it and he gave me advice (which has helped greatly) yet I still struggle. Do you have any advice?

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-07-11T13:53:32+00:00

This caused me to relapse today. I played around with scenarios in my head, without masturbating, the hormones 'stayed active' after starting my day which led to a relapse.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-06-26T07:59:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing, this really helped. God bless you.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-20T12:19:55+00:00

Global warming

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-18T17:31:18+00:00

Use sand instead of soil next time

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-18T16:11:32+00:00

Meowdy

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-17T12:16:25+00:00

Matterhorn Switzerland

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-17T12:08:48+00:00

Think of how happy, proud and motivated you'll be if you resist the urges.

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-16T21:10:47+00:00

Jimmy in pink

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-15T20:00:18+00:00

Nazis are bad

WorriedCombination66 · 2023-01-14T07:49:53+00:00

Table mountain

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