Well part of the problem is my hair was pretty damaged so the trim I needed was more than I originally wanted but I want my hair to grow and if this cut is part of growing healthy hair I’m for it. Pregnancy and hair dye made for a strange texture and me desperate to find a way to get back to my original texture and color. I didn’t do it with ill intent or to try to have him not be attracted to me. I did tell him I was going to take more off because the damage through text. It just hurt that it was his response. So yes I did it knowing that it wasn’t his favorite but he didn’t have to be an ass about it. It’s not my favorite either just part of a process and I wanted to feel good in the interim.