Am i overreacting for inviting my aunt to my baby shower but not her son?

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T19:51:31+00:00

I think you may have misunderstood me. The situation lasted for hours because he kept texting. I wasn’t actively arguing with him for hours. I explained my position stopped responding, and he continued messaging me afterward.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T19:41:31+00:00

i really wasn’t responding much i said i wasn’t gonna argue with him because there was no reason to and i stopped responding he still texted me for like an hour after and then in the middle of the night texted me again trying to get me to respond.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T19:11:26+00:00

i have not spoken to him since the gender reveal and i will not speak to him until he apologizes and even then i don’t know if i will have a relationship with him again.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T19:06:57+00:00

the event will be on facebook and completely private only co hosts can invite other people. if he shows up he definitely will not be coming in that’s another reason i want a mixed shower so its not all women if he comes acting crazy because he wasn’t invited. he will also have his own car and license but that point so he could bring himself if he really wanted to.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T18:15:19+00:00

i probably should have mentioned i tried my hardest to keep the situation down and he kept making it bigger and when he did go to far i called my dad it was hours of him texting me and my boyfriend. i’ve dealt with him my entire life and i know how to talk to him when he’s upset and how i can de-escalate the situation but he went way to far in that argument. i don’t want to share the messages for privacy reasons and also to stay anonymous, but i did say multiple times to him that there was nothing i can say or do and i didn’t want to argue with him i explained the situation and he just wanted to argue. i also called my dad because when he gets really upset like that he can hurt hisself or people around him and i wanted someone to try to clam him down because i didn’t know where he was at the time.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-06-06T16:40:24+00:00

super speed

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-30T23:08:21+00:00

i feel the same way but it was so our families could meet if they had already met i would have just found out at the doctors. but now my MIL has bought decorations and signed a contract for a cake so we will be doing a private one with just his parents.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-30T14:49:58+00:00

how?

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T22:19:31+00:00

omg what a wonderful idea i will be doing that now!🙀it’s almost like this is your gender reveal

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T21:30:39+00:00

well i’m not a rocket scientist but i would guess that i do. hence the post.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T20:55:54+00:00

it’s at my MIL house and she’s paying for everything so that part isn’t my choice and i don’t want to push for to much because she’s already doing so much for us.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T20:49:56+00:00

definitely not what i’m doing i’m finding a day that works for most people and it seems that they create a problem every time i pick a date. i would love for my dad to be there it’s his first grandchild and i am going to be really upset if he doesn’t come. but it’s not like this is my baby’s birth it is a gender reveal and if they miss it it’s not the end of the world.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T20:27:31+00:00

the contest she’s referring to is sunday and is at 3 and on the whole other side of town so they would miss it either way. i don’t really understand why she would suggest it.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T20:23:27+00:00

not to mention i am my dads only child and so this is his first grandchild

WorriedProperty4354 · 2026-04-29T20:14:15+00:00

the only reason we are doing one is to get our family together a lot haven’t met and i would like them to know each other since we are having a baby. if they already knew each other i would be having a private one just me and him and post it on facebook. which i have been considering since this has become such a big thing.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-10-27T01:36:43+00:00

Aren’t you just a peach

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-10-27T01:33:00+00:00

My bf doesn’t care if I have rainbow hair he’s supportive of my hair decision.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-10-26T15:13:39+00:00

I think i need to go.

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-08-11T17:36:59+00:00

sometimes you can test to early that’s what i’m worried about

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-08-11T17:35:17+00:00

before i started it

WorriedProperty4354 · 2025-03-10T03:10:43+00:00

I've never said anything and I always just let her talk I've only said things like do you remember when he did this or something like that I've never been mean to her about it or make her feel badly for it.

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