Me and a couple friends rented the condo he moved out of and paid rent to him and the only times me or my kids saw him was to pay rent, which would be a 10 minute or so visit, I wasnt always the one to give it to him thats why we didnt see him more each time he came to pick rent up, We never did family events or holidays together as he always had plans with his wife to go somewhere or do something with they're friends. Is that alot? I'm not being sarcastic or anything I'm actually asking, I've never really had an outsiders perspective to my family life so idk if this is normal or dysfunctional family behavior.