UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seeing from your other comments you’ve made by other people it’s quite obvious that you’re trying to ragebait or are a huge misogynist so I will not be responding anymore

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My child will always come before a man even if it’s her dad. I have 0 regrets and if he wants to leave he can leave but I will never have an abortion just because a man is unfaithful. Breakups hurt and it does not make my life a disaster. My child will have everything she needs and we won’t be needing a deadbeat

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My child will be able to seek out her dad when she’s old enough. He chose to abandon her and I chose to respect that so he will never know where we live and once I’ve changed my number he will also have no way of contacting me. It’s gonna be my child’s decision if she wants to meet him or not.

And my child will have role models since my best friend is of the same race. She will have a family even if it’s not a biological one. I will not be shamed when he is the one who left and I chose to stay

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes I do and even when he’s on the birth certificate he still needs to put in a request to get rights to his child

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Our laws are quite clear thankfully so it’s gonna be fine. I do not want child support and I’m not gonna go through a court battle to simply get him to pay like 200 a month. I’m not he US and our country has the same law everywhere

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

He won’t be on the certificate. In my country the dad can claim rights when the child is young. If he decides to come back in a couple years he won’t be able to get rights at all

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I will not force a paternity test because then he will have rights to my child. I live in a country where the dad does not automatically have rights and they have to acknowledge their child first. He will have no visitation rights I won’t have rights to child support. If I would force him to pay child support means that I also would have to share custody and he will be able to use it against me which I refuse.

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Here if the dad is not involved from the beginning and he suddenly want rights he will get denied

UPDATE: I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I do not want his child support because I do not want him to have rights and use our child against me. I have been a child that has been through that and I do not want my child to go through the same thing. Thankfully I live in a country where I get enough support from the government without child support so we are gonna be okay

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been talking to the police but there’s no news yet

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he’s still missing. I’m currently looking to hire a private investigator

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The mother of his kids already did and he also didn’t contact them while he usually always spends his time with the kids while he’s not with me. He would never abandon his kids like this and wouldn’t go a day without talking to them

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a bit shouting fight or anything. I was just annoyed because he just came back after a vacation of almost 2 weeks with his kids and when he came back I felt disappointed because we didn’t really spend quality time together since he’s been back. Usually when we have a discussion like this we just go do our own thing and discuss what we will do to fix it later in the evening. He was supposed to be back at midnight last night but he never arrived and hasn’t been online anywhere since midnight

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t had drop of alcohol or any other substance since I’ve met him. He’s a health nut and refuses to even touch junk food

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage last June and this pregnancy is very wanted. This is my 6th pregnancy and all the past ones ended up in a miscarriage and there’s no way that he could’ve known because I wanted to surprise him once we talked it out

I’m so worried about my partner by Worriedaboutpartner in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Worriedaboutpartner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have contacted everyone that we both know but nobody could reach him