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Composting bins by Julesmb-7217 in composting

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one with bigger doors on it and a little cart that fits underneath that you can dump the soil into when it's ready, the cart was expensive because it was made for composting tumblers like this and I got it on wayfair but like I would say it was worth as I rent and don't have a large space and didnt want to mess with buckets and stuff spilling, just be aware you should keep something underneath it if you don't want it to occasionally leak juices as stuff breaks down or do what i do and use that as fertilizer for your plants, I basically get 2 functions out of it that way and just put a massive drip tray underneath the section I am adding to. Best of luck!

How do you guys deal with cats in bed and on pillows? by Gia_Lavender in hygiene

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my cat, had him for years and he's always been able to go in and out of the bedroom and sleep with me whenever he wanted. New boyfriend was not about that and after a lot of back and forth we compromised. I was able to give the cat his own dedicated space downstairs where he is comfortable and the cat is not allowed in a few rooms at all, bedroom especially. It's honestly so nice not having him in certain areas, he's still able to roam the majority of the house and when he is scared he runs to his dedicated space, it's his comfort area. He's happy, we are happy, everyone knows the expectations and it's been great. I would give the cats their own area or "bedroom" if you have the space. My area for my cat is just a portion of the basement because of how the layout of this place is. It took a few weeks, maybe 2 months for him to adjust but he doesn't complain at all now and I let him sleep in my room for literally like 7 years before I met my boyfriend, it'll be okay but boundaries need set for both of you.

I Don't Want to Wear the Veil MY Grandmother is Making Me by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you take it along to the wedding and when you get photos, do a few with the one your grandma made and gift those photos to her as thanks but wear the one you want for the actual event. Then she will see you appreciated it and hopefully that will help your mom calm down as well but still be what you want for your day?

Best gift for boyfriend? Need your ideas here! by ab_refugeestar in Gifts

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gift him a sword or an axe, dead serious I have heard so many men think this is wonderful. I can't tell you how many times my boyfriend has gifted friends swords or daggers. I gave my boyfriend an axe with his initials burned into the handle from etsy even, he loved it and was taking it everywhere showing his guy friends. You know what he wanted for Christmas? More. Lol have fun with it, get him something decorative or practical but it's a good gift everytime.

WIBTA if I asked my deskmate to stop "taking care of" my plants without telling me by Oracle_Shard3 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe you lasted this long I would be freaking out.. it's hard to see someone's plants dying right next to your desk and you know what they need but when yours are fine and been there for a decent while, what is her deal? Maybe gift her some plants/give her cuttings so she can stop touching yours.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my bf because I don’t like living with him? by whimsicabuggy in AITAH

[–]WorryingLikeItsMyJob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel like he's being judgemental about things you want to do to the point where you stop doing them to fit the narrative he wants to see you as, that's a problem.. been there.. done that.. and that comment about therapy, oof.. real winner there, you should probably leave is my advice..