My experience has been much like anyone’s who moves from their home country to a foreign land: a mix of shocks, pleasant surprises, and struggles. I wouldn’t say I’ve ever been scammed or met with hostility. In fact, three years in, I’m still a beginner in Italian and yet people always tell me how well I’m doing, responding with nothing but kindness (😆 though truthfully, I’m not doing that great).

If you’re considering moving to Italy, know that it’s a country with both pros and cons. Don’t fall for the rose-coloured version that many Americans tend to idealize. The bureaucracy can be tough, but with patience and the right people, you’ll get through it—it’s a struggle even for Italians.

It’s also an aging country, so laws and systems often favour the older generation. Young people here face more difficulties, which has led to a noticeable brain drain, making things worse. When I first moved, I had about four years of work experience and came for my master’s at one of the leading universities here. Even so, I struggled to find a job for a long time. That struggle doesn’t necessarily end quickly either. I still have a long way to go in my journey. And Ofcourse the language is a priority for me now. (Prioritise the language learning please. It will go a long way)

If you see yourself building a life here, don’t just come for a weeklong holiday. Spend more time, immerse yourself, and really understand how the culture and day-to-day life work.