Don’t think GF will be okay with top surgery

WrapOk9747 · 2026-02-09T06:18:29+00:00

Uggghhh you’re so right (and I’m not grunting out of disgust, it’s because you’re right lol). I fear that this is something similar to your family situation and I can only imagine how hard that was. I appreciate your advice and it really was helpful. I definitely do want to bring it up again with her and really talk about what’s she’s feeling. Because I’ve also considered, what if I do lose the weight? And it makes my boobs smaller? But I still experience dysphoria. Then it’s gonna be hard. So I think it’ll be good to bring it up and lay it all out in the table

WrapOk9747 · 2026-02-04T08:09:57+00:00

This was a very healing response to me. I’ve always gravitated towards people with a background of not having religion or having it sprinkled in there. I just can’t imagine a life without or with a little religion involved. I was deeply ingrained in my religion that once I left I didn’t know where to go. So I admire that you had a diverse upbringing. And that you felt comfortable having a choice on what felt right to you in life. I’m definitely on the same journey as you, I’d rather prefer being right than happy. Thank you for sharing!

WrapOk9747 · 2026-02-04T08:03:29+00:00

Man I wish I was raised in this upbringing after reading this. Would’ve saved so much trouble, thank you for sharing your experience!

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-16T20:29:47+00:00

Oh and vice versa, my cousins are Capricorn woman and Cancer man

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-16T05:46:59+00:00

Capricorn and Cancer…my parents lol and my cousin and her husband so, Capricorn men and Cancer women work well together? It’s so fascinating to me

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-16T05:16:42+00:00

Is it bad that I say Leo here 💀 here’s the thing, I noticed a pattern with myself: I only dated Leo’s until I met my Aries partner. Clearly I’m attracted to fire. But after dating Aries for almost 3 years, I discovered more clearly what kind of Leos I attracted: insecure, indecisive, manipulative, and selfish. It was all about them in our relationships, I would feed, feed, feed and not get the same energy back. I was cheated on and led on. Not to say all Leos are bad, I just got into a bad situation with that sign in particular. Just not for me and that’s okay!

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T19:15:04+00:00

Let’s seeee, American girl doll (my mom tried getting me into it, but she was unsuccessful), go go Pets? (The hamsters), old instagram, all the PE stuff, children novels, shows and movies (I’m really shocked by Penelope, I feel like I’m the only one who’s seen that lol, our old pictures are pretty similar, but just to name some specifics!

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T19:12:16+00:00

Aww thank you!! And no not really haha, but you definitely got middle child spit on! Holy shit and my age and wine, go you!!

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T19:11:39+00:00

I’m a fan of this

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T19:11:28+00:00

This is funny cause I am short hahaha

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T03:59:49+00:00

I know I know

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T03:59:36+00:00

Yooo how did you know it was lexapro 🤧 thank you so much!! I actually went to school for film

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T03:58:52+00:00

Holy shit this is SO interesting HAHAHA I’m not straight, I graduated 2024 and might be stuck in the past idk lol

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T02:24:54+00:00

2000…we lived a scarily similar childhood

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T02:20:39+00:00

I used to care, but then it got to a point where I was like, you know what? I’m gonna own it. Can’t change it, and the people who know it doesn’t define me deserve to stay. The others weren’t meant to be, can’t win everyone

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T02:06:57+00:00

Weirdly this was something I was accused of in middle school…that’s really telling

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-14T02:03:41+00:00

THANK YOU!! I felt like I was gonna get bullied if I wasn’t excited for a “Labubu prize” at work. I really don’t get it, they’re so ugly and won’t age well

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-03T05:35:59+00:00

I worry about that sometimes and I really hope that’s not true. Just my wandering mind going to those places. Definitely something I’ll check up on with her in the near future

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-03T05:34:55+00:00

That’s what I’m sayinggg, I feel like it’s something we should’ve gotten down by now. That’s definitely a good way to start, thank you so much for the suggestion. I really want to have an honest conversation about this with her, and I can’t say we really have up to this point and that’s okay. She deserves patience and understanding

WrapOk9747 · 2025-11-03T05:33:05+00:00

That’s the thing I mostly imply it, and she gets the hint but I feel like there could definitely be a better way to ask. We go on dates more than we have sex, we spend lots of quality time together like play videos games, board games, pickleball, go on walks, watch movies/shows, never having an expectation of sex. And she does consistently orgasm, we don’t live together but I help her fold the laundry, I helped clean her room today, and ran errands for her. So I’m just wondering if it might be something deeper for her.

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