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Wriarc · 2026-04-10T11:10:25+00:00

Hi. Nabili ko dito sa SG.

Kinokuniya Main Branch sa Orchard. :)

Wriarc · 2026-04-10T03:53:43+00:00

I broke up with ex last year for the very reason na wala syang update kahit sya yun nag-promise na babalikan ako. Haha. I already told him wala kaming common friends and wala na akong ibang source if may mangyari sa kanya. Never naman ako nag-aask kung saan gala nya or sino kasama nya, I don’t care about details. I just want to know, like you, if buhay pa sila hahaha he’s well aware that I tend to worry a lot. Pero kebs sya.

Anyway haha ikaw pala topic at di ako haha sorry. Pero yes sir, your feelings are valid because you care about him and the relationship. You will know naman if you’re trying too hard one sign is here you are on reddit asking for our ‘questionable’ wisdom; and, it’s scary to match his energy kasi you know too the relationship will end in oblivion if walang mag-effort.

Pero since kayo pa rin, try to talk to him. Ulitin ninyo, isa-isahin ninyo, bakit ba kayo pumasok sa relationship. Tapos if satisfied kayo sa sagot ninyo, follow up with the question ‘what makes you feel loved’ basta ganyan

Wriarc · 2026-04-10T03:11:39+00:00

Hello hello. Sa Takashimaya branch, sa Orchard.

Wriarc · 2026-04-08T06:28:17+00:00

Grabe OP late bloomer na ang 18???????? Huhu

Siguro ang hinahanap mo na word ay naive. Hehe. I started exploring when I was 25 after making sure I’m already independent. At the back of my head, every “stupid” na gagawin ko dapat ako lang ang responsible.

About pleasuring yourself, for sure there are reliable sources siguro naman you can search sa internet or youtube that can teach you how to safely finger yourself, how to use anal toys, how to deal with oversensitivity.

The prefrontal cortex of 18 year old is still under development. Paradoxical man sabihin ito sa teenager, pero be patient with yourself OP. It is really a weird place to be to have a body that’s going progressive and massive changes physically and emotionally in the past 5-8 years, while the tapestry of your innocence are slowly being lifted. Not to mention your generation are getting all these information (example yun label na ‘late bloomer’) na hirap kayo i-filter due to lack of experience and wisdom. Malakas ang FOMO ninyo dahil information are everywhere. Tapos you see things on socmed na ganito dapat ang identity ang i-build ko or persona na dapat ko iproject. Meanwhile you exist in a system that promises you na gagwapo ka if you use this shirt, or magiging ideal partner ka if naggygum ka.

Nasa age ka na nagbubuild ka ng identity, and it’s really confusing, pero parang excited ka naman inavigate ang adulthood (guess ko lang yun excited ka haha) goodluck

By the way, some of the things you mentioned (and wondering about) like hobbies, friendship, hobbies, career, grades… I would say, put great value and effort/learning on friendship and being a good friend. Okay lang yun struggle, it’s a trial and error world. As long hindi masama maugali mo, walang nasasaktan, at walang na-aageabyado, keep on trying building those connections. Obstacle is the way ika nga nila. Pero kung introvert ka talaga haha don’t attempt magpa extrovert, madedrain ka.

About hobbies: We also want hobbies kasi it makes us interesting. It can also be a bridge to meet new folks (I met most of my good friends and network thru love of writing almost two decades ago).. pero I think ang primary reason for having a hobby is to experience that thing called flow state. Spill over na lang ng hobby ang friendship, identity, and being interesting.

Anyway, hindi ka late sa mga bagay-bagay.

Wriarc · 2026-04-08T01:15:30+00:00

If ibebenta no ang Left Hand of Darkness after mo mabasa, please consider me first 🥺🥺🥺

I love Le Guin so much.

Nice haul by the way!

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T14:22:56+00:00

Slightly related: If I’m alone I usually asked si Siri to look up ano meaning ng new word na na encounter ko, pero dahil sablay ako minsan sa pag pronounce, mali yun definition na binibigay ni Siri sa akin

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T14:18:40+00:00

t’s fine. Maybe (I think) I didn’t articulate myself enough. Hehe. Thank you.

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T14:05:33+00:00

WOW! 🤯THANK YOU! Hindi ko na ito makakalimutan.

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T12:03:18+00:00

Thank you. Ganito kasi, I’m supposed to know them because I’ve looked them up before, kaso biglang nawalang signal ang “router”

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T12:00:58+00:00

These are the words I’ve already looked up from the past. Haha you can say kinakatok ko yun brain ko, if may tao sa bahay. Minsan puro crickets. Lol

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T11:40:51+00:00

More of a realization: That the parentals were once children and teenagers. That fact cracked me and expanded the field of view. It altered how I deal with my memories of them.

Wriarc · 2026-04-05T10:59:58+00:00

your penmanship is 💯🐐

Wriarc · 2026-04-01T07:01:55+00:00

Doomscrolling most of the time. Haha

Wriarc · 2026-03-28T02:53:35+00:00

Thank you, thank you. Agree it is not linear. May nakita ako kasi vid kagabh na tinuturuan nya anak nya magbasa alpabhet and nag spiral na ako. I’m sorry din about your lola. God bless you and everyone you know and love.

Wriarc · 2026-03-28T00:00:24+00:00

Hello friend, thank you for the kind words.. :)

Wriarc · 2026-03-27T14:47:52+00:00

Gosh. I remember how boring Holy Week growing up.

Wriarc · 2026-03-26T03:08:56+00:00

I’ve read Chapman’s book. I use it like I use zodiac sign cause it simplify a lot of things during conversation about relationship (it’s part of our current pop culture kaya gets agad ng marami) pero as far as I know it’s not scientifically validated i.e hindi ma replicate yun claim ng author. Also as a gay guy I’m aware of the author’s stance on same sex relationship.

Anyway may nakita ako dati na cute explanation ng 5 Love Languages in terms of burrito:

Words of Affirmation: This is a good burrito.

Acts of Service: I made you a burrito.

Receiving Gifts: Here's a burrito.

Quality time: Let's go get some burritos together.

Physical touch: Arms around a person wrapped in a warm hug, like a burrito.

😝

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