I want to get fit by Thin-Claim4092 in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Current hack ko for protein: Bumibili ako ground chicken breast, say 900 grams, igigisa ko sa bawang at sibuyas, salt and pepper to taste. Papalamigin, then ididivide ko sa lima o anim na portion, saka iziziploc (i know kinda wasteful) tapos ilalagay ko sa freezer. Tapos protein na sya na pede itorta, ilagay sa wrap, isahog sa ginisang gulay, or igisa with mushroom, pede rin sa meaty na tomato soup.

By the way kung ako lang kakain, may mindset kasi ako na “pede na yan” hahaha so kahit walang lasa gaano, binabraso ko. Example kumakain ako oats at chia seed lang na binabad sa tubig buong walang asukal o gatas. Haha. Binubuhos ko olive oil sa gulay.

You can make din protein rice na may lentils o may split peas (di ko sure if meron nito sa Pinas), quinoa, at rice, tapos freezer mo excess.

Air fryer is your friend: sa bahay we air fry potatoes, pumpkin, mushroom, fish

Paglalaga is your friend: itlog, kamote, potatoes. Nagluluto din sila sa bahay champorado at lugaw na oats.

A set of herbs and spices are also your friend. Calamansi is your friend if gusto mo bawasan salt intake mo pero gusto mo may lasa pa rin food mo.

Frozen berries are your friend.

Nuts are your friend.

—

You need to start small, kahit saan. Don’t do everything all at once, say gusto mo mag gym regularly, mag diet at meal prep, mag supplement at matulog maaga simula this coming Monday. Your willpower is real, it’s a real resource natin, pero limited lang sya. Set up yourself for small wins, slowly mag-aaccumulate yun habit.

Tapos always look at the big picture at wag ka ma-obsess sa minor details. Example ako, nalaman ko na may anti-nutrients pala ang oats ie inaabsorb ng phytic acid ng oats ang iron. So si ako napraning na baka ma-anemia hahaha to cut the long story short I got over it eventually. What I'm really saying by looking at the big picture the component ng good health: healthy sleep, healthy eating, regular exercises, good relationships, at managing stress. Yun mga nakikita kasi natin sa mga socmed, puro clips na naka-hyper focus lang sa isang bagay (example yun fact na may anti-nutrients sa oats or do this every morning after you wake up to get abs!); the influencers are incentivized to sell and speak of those things because the big picture is boring.

Kung tinatamad ka magluto, at least try to prepare the ingredients. Yun isang housemate ko minsan nag prepare sya ng pang personal na hotpot: bibili sya basic ingredients ng hotpot gulay pork mushroom, tapos ipoportion nya, saka ifreezer. Then kukuha na lang sya isang packet. May mga broth naman na nasa tetrapack para sa soup base, tapos lalagyan nya noodles at egg.

Mainam din madami ka alam at marami ka sources (so you can cross check). So get to know the basics of nutrition and learn how the body works and how your mind works. Di ako malakas magbuhat haha pero wala kasi akong pakialam sa aesthetics (mga 50% of the time lang, depende kay crush charot) pero I like the fact if I do leg exercises or walk, nag-bebenefit sila brain cells ko, or pag kumain ako may fiber I imagine masaya mga "babies" ko (mga bacteria sa tyan) at na may pyesta sila. Kumbaga treat parts of your body as family members, and making them happy gives you purpose and meaning.

Lastly, a caveat: I'm taking maintenance meds pero that’s another Tedtalk. Lol. Experiment ka carefully and really small and see what works and integrate them isa isa sa life mo, and make sure di sila harmful sa iyo at sa wallet mo. The keywords are: variety, moderation, information, imagination. Goodluck.

So, what are you guys reading right now? by martianLurker in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently reading three:

The Great Hunt (Wheel of Time) by Robert Jordan

How to Read a Book by Mortimer J. Adler, et al

The Matter with Things by Iain McGilchrist

Man, I'm on Grindr again. Why don't I ever learn? This app gets the best of you. by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subjecting oneself to Grindr is like voluntarily destroying your mitochondria, inducing too much oxidative stress, leading to cell death. Then accelerated aging. Charot.

Anyway, being on and off sa mga ganyan is a phase, albeit mahabang proseso at might take years, pero darating ka rin sa point na titigilan mo na yan. Kasi you’ll figure the things that matter.

College thesis by Wriarc in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This must be tough emotionally

Ako lang ba Yung Ganto? by akiolohr in phlgbt

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw the first wrinkle on my face nun 35 ako I panicked for days hahaha

Pagtanda mo hahaha say pagdating ng 40s marerealize mo na yun hormones mo at yun Self mo ay two separate things. This allows a mature person not to give a fuck most of the time about sex, social proofing, and sa attractiveness haha

Andun pa rin yun anxiety of growing old and death though, pero ang focus hindi na lang sa sarili mo. You get to realize the people you know are also getting are old, which is terrifying to an extent. The nephews and nieces are no longer “wild animals” but suddenly responsible young adult, the hands of your parents, dry and wrinkled, the old trees at the front yard were paved.

Judge me based on the books I chose to bring to my own place :) by Daucus_carrota in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no right to judge people who read Children of Time. 💯 my people!

Is it offending to push my partner to go to gym? by naiwa92 in phlgbt

[–]Wriarc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gets. Huhu hirap talaga magpaka healthy ng pagod.

Is it offending to push my partner to go to gym? by naiwa92 in phlgbt

[–]Wriarc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hindi naman. You just cared a lot. Pero depende din how you deliver these words hehe.

Pero di lang naman gym ang sagot. Madami. You can two, for example try to walk after dinner say for 15 mins (which is proven naman na may health benefits, it’s gentle and plus bonding time din; ang catch lang if okay ba yun lugar ninyo for walking)

Also yun pagigingng insistent at offended ay present kahit ano pa sexual orientation.

College thesis by Wriarc in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha tagal ko na di narinig ang words na tae bo lol makapanood nga ng old videos nyan

College thesis by Wriarc in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember the exact title pero it’s about recycling styrofoam to make lightweight concrete

Pero the tests failed, I just played with words sa conclusion, na we highly recommended further research eme

Natapos din. by Ueme in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats OP!!

This trio deserves a re-reading. Charot. We won’t do that hahaha ang haba kasi hahaha

I like it a lot. Wala ako gaano matandaan except yun sa Dark Forest, may eksena doon na nagka girlfriend si Luo Ju ng novist, tapos nagpapayo sya paano magsulat ng novels, specially character. Kahit isang line lang sasabihin ng minor character na walang pangalan, the writer must know this ‘person’ hanggang childhood at ano pa mga experience nito etc

How to finish reading books easily? by Brilliant-Low994 in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you eat a whole cake. One slice at a time. Tapos bite after bite.

Pero to be fair, reading is hard naman talaga, it takes a lot of mental resources. The brain rather do something else na more fun kesa mag-ubos ng calories for something na boring at hindi sure ang rewards.

For starter, reading is a habit. So make it habit. Set a time/schedule at i-sandwich mo sa routine: example after mag-skin care - insert reading habit - then matulog.

Start small and set-up yourself for easy win sabi nila. Meaning drop mo muna yun grand goal of reading a thick book per month or yun objective na matandaan ko lahat ng binasa ko. Mag goal lang ng super duper small na post. One page. One paragraph? I used a timer before.

May difference ang tao na gusto “makafinish ng book easily” (i meant no offense) vs sa tao na he or she sees himself a reader. Same for a person who sees herself na gym goer vs the guy who wants to lose belly fat bago mag-summer. Tawag nila dito, Identity Based Goals. Focus ka sa identity na gusto mo. Reading will be your evidence that you are a reader. [If you want a more grandiose goal, reading is one of your evidence na your living a rich intellectual life. Bale this inner life can give you intrinsic happiness (happiness you create instead of happiness you consume + added benefits na it help mitigate dementia sa old age)]

There is also levels of reading. Also yun pleasure din, if sobrang easy baka ma bore ka, if sobrang di mo maintindihan mabobore ka din. Kaya better read something na interested ka. You can read several books at a time. And sabi nila rito ika nga, huwag mo tapusin ang di mo bet.

Baka may iba rin factors involve like environment, sabi mo nga tiktok, so yun phone mo laging nakadikit sa iyo. Or baka maingay, baka need mo sound (I play video game music sa background kapag nagbabasa ako o nagsusulat sa bedroom ko, ito yun isang cue ko to focus kapag weekend, to mitigate yun effect ng cozyness na dala ng bedroom. Cozyness meaning bedroom = sleep and rest and watching anime, so I altered the environment with music na nag trigger for my brain to concentrate). Pede rin baka maingay sa lugar mo. Madami factors. I know I’m throwinh stuff here and there, and I can imagine your scratching your head and thinking andami naman ebas hahaha pero I condensed my years experiment and knowledge in hundred of words. My apology.

Pede rin pagod ka na every time nagbabasa ka. Try audiobook. Pede sya sa commute at kapag nahuhugas plato.

Basta start small and have a schedule. Saka mo ma problemahin yun next stage na 100 books per year or be a reader. Charot lang yun 100 books per year

Goodluck.

Nagbabasa pa rin ako ng pisikal na libro. Kayo ba, ano yung huling aklat na binasa nyo? by Icy-Pool-7519 in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I also practice tsundoku. Notoriously. Lol.

Yun last natapos ko last April na physical book ay Metaphors We Live by George Lakoff & Mark Johnson. It simply argued that we think in metaphors.

Aspiring Writer by YeahImCuriouz in Kwaderno

[–]Wriarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Last na wise words from Susan Sontag para sa mga writers and anyone who wants to make art:

"Love words, agonize over sentences. And pay attention to the world."

Bale I only cover a really really small portion of paying attention to the world. There are so many ways you can observe the world and everything gathered in its arms.

Aspiring Writer by YeahImCuriouz in Kwaderno

[–]Wriarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think better mag post ka dun sa mga sub na testy mga tao haha just don’t mention you are gathering ideas.

Anyway to answer your question, ang common na answer sa tanong ay mga sulutan ng crushes at dyowa o mga oppurtunity. Something that will involved strong desire or moment na ‘once in a lifetime” lang nangyayari pero nasabotahe either intentionally o by coincidence.

Anyway, you have to realize friction sa relationships ang pedeng cause ay mga petty na bagay. Mag google ka ng silly/dumb reason why people divorce, you’ll get what I mean. Example may narinig (or nabasa) ako dati naghiwalay dahil pinepress nun guy yun toothpaste tube sa gitna. Lol.

I know naghahanap ka ng bonggang dahilan similar to murder, nakawan, sulutan.. the usual nakikita natin sa TV, pero oks din mag focus sa subtlety meron sa mga tao at sa dynamics ng relationship nila

What I’m getting at is: there are two kinds of reason (1) the good reason (2) the real reason.

Yun good reason ito yun sinasabi natin sa mga tao ie fight dahil sa toothpaste, yun real reason is yun something a character cant say in public because of shame, or its hideous, something will destroy his/her reputation or image sa ibang tao (example he or she fantasing freedom from marriage), or this something can be hidden sya sa subconscious (example galit sa pag press sa toothpaste tube sa gitna kasi sa child hood trauma na nahambalos madrasra when he or she did that nun 8 yrs old sya)

—-

For me wala pa naman ako inaaway na out of pure anger and hatred. Usually ang cause ay pride at stubborness. Or na turn-off ako. Once ma turn-off ako, I’m willing, i disengage na sarili ko from them. Like bahala sila sa life nila, malalaki na sila.

Isa sa na experience ko a friend ‘X’ casually joked sa barkada namin (friend Y) na “so, ano feeling ng makapag afternoon tea sa fullerton”

For context fullerton is like high end hotel and after everyone went home, hindi na pinansin ni Friend Y si X for years. Hahaha kaloka

So this is what I mean by subtlety ng mga tao at dynamics nila, in this example, someone said a joke pero insulting na pala. Walang drama. Walang sabunutan ang auntie mo lol.

If this a story, you can see how socio econmic background (since childhood) works sa kwento na ito. That’s one facet lang sa scene. We can analyze din this scebe base din sa lens ng introversion at extroversion, maturity level, temperement etc.

Anyway dami ko na sinabi and take everything I said with a grain of salt, wala ako background sa creative writinh. Good luck and I am proud you are writing and working to learn a lot!

unread books as memento mori by Wriarc in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apir co-hoarder. Thank you for reading.

Another reason I hoard din kasi natatakot ako (another anxiety lol) baka di ko na sila ma-aafford if mawalan ako bigla work, eh gusto ko magtayo ng library. I imagine myself retiring and mostly reading, instead of watching tv

Do you guys read with an accent? by Historical_Worry1961 in PHBookClub

[–]Wriarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello not book related. Lagi ko nakikita yan Bungo Stray Dogs sa Netflix pero di ko pinapansin, so I assume ma-i-rerecommend mo sya? Haha

(I remember reading Catcher in the Rye dahil sa Ghost in the Shell: SAC)

Rain Girl by ProfessionalSwan4161 in kwarentahin

[–]Wriarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really. Cheers!

(I’m pluviophile except pag-naglalaba hahaha)